i just dont beleive much in monogamy. I think its healthy for individuals to be able to have multiple mates even if they are intimate for years which would be like a marraige just with nothing official. no person should "own" another person's romace or sexuality, the s/o should be allow to talk to their s/o if they find someone attractive and if they are going to have sex or date with someone outside him/her.

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Monogamy is popular because it’s easier to keep track and we have a ~1:1 ratio

If I married someone, I'd want it to be spiritually not by law.

Because you know divorces = $$$ for people.

Lose half your shit.

Just don't focus on that

Ever heard of a prenuptial?

Or it'll happen

And maybe I'm just broken in that way because I've had families ripped apart.

I've seen it.

Don’t even bother getting a marriage without one

Lived it.

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STD's go down with monogamy, thats why its stayed for so long

If she doesn't want a prenup then that's too bad.

I'm monogamous as in that i only have my gf but me and her talk all the time about other people we find attarctive and in most mainstream boyfrined/girlfriend or w/e type relationships stuff like this would be taboo and it's what leads to cheating

imo

That tells her you don't care enough or you don't believe the marriage is going to work out anyways @🎃Oakheart🎃

Idk I'm dating multiple people at the same time, but it's not like I've ever told them we're exclusive.

Think of a prenup like wearing a condom. Just because you want to be safe does not mean you don’t trust the other person

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It's true.

Why get married at all?

It doesn't mean you don't love them.

It means you want to be safe.

@Dear Mason because

Government

You have to come first.

And psychological

Gov't smells profit from marriage.

There's really no point.

Men see it as woman is mine!

It would be the thing that haunts your marriage

Gov’t loses money from marriage m8

Women can just put any man's name down and say they're the father.

Less tax revenues

Force them to pay.

Also green card

Can't stand illegals who come in and have 10 kids and make the state pay for them.

marriage is a scam