I have a good job and make a decent living. But she's definitely been a distraction. But she's also made me want to do better. Which i know is dangerous. Never better yourself solely for a woman. But I've been feeling apathetic about life. I could honestly use any motivation to do better at this point
Dude... I have been feeling the same way. I have been doing well in life but I've gotten comfortable. I saw my girl as a sex toy but then I caught feelings so at least you had more of a wholesome foundation.
@reagoge you can't caall yourself a dumb fucking idiot. You recognize you need to do better and are seeking advice on how to do so. You want to better yourself. The fact that you have that desire. Means you aren't an idiot. An idiot would have no desire to better because they would be unable to see that thier situation is flawed in the first place
Thankfully, I learned my lesson fairly well without too much cost. I spent 300-400 hours max time with her with about 100 hours of actual sex/intimacy that really was beautiful to me. The rest was meh or bullshit so lessons learned. It's going to hurt for the next few weeks.
