But if it's stuff like him telling me not to go out after 7 PM or something

men cannot tell women to do anything

that's just creepy man

it is sexist

Lol franti

I'm not gonna stick up for my gf cuz she left me

I get when fathers do it

patriarchal sexism

But if it's a boyfriend, it's just weird

fathers CONTROLLING THIER DAUGHTERS

I had a boyfriend like that before

arent you like

He told me not to touch a guy ever

thats not protection

So weird

thats just

obsessive

that's just a hyper insecure jealous douche

Yea

@Deleted User that is some controlling shit

controlling =/= protecting

Yea, I left him though

He was afraid, that you went missing with another guy.

it's okay

*gears start rotating in my brain*

wtf kind of internet chatroom am i in where no one points out the obvious girl

Well I won't say controlling is completely seperate from protecting

and than says some really fucked shit

what?

im in the damn twilight zone

how do you mean?

Yeah im lost

You gotta impose a certain level of control to protect someone at times, imo

stop your violating the NAP

go take a nap

um

Not necessarily yoi can protect someone when a situation demands it without impossing control

No, no

protective =/= possessive

I mean stuff like telling my bf not to hang out with his drinking buddies

But thats different