And deal with the crazyness

Naaah

You'd have to deal with a slightly lower level of crazyness with your average girl anyway

I mean. I don't know if bi-polar can be dealt with by knowing God. I don't understand it all yet enough to know either way

It's hard to say
Im with you on that one

The idea that she has probably been with other guys since disgusts me too

I think if they thought that way maybe they could change somewhat?
Maybe that's what's missing for them
Some guidance
Can't be that simple

but perhaps when I have forgiven my mother I will be over that. Or just not put any thought to her - I don't usually.

It's possible
I still haven't forgiven mine

I hope so. I mean, I like the idea that 'homosexuality' can be 'cured' by forgiving the mother. If it's true, that's great for those who do.

I'm amazin'??

I'm not sure on that
But I do believe if someone wants to do that for that reason it would be a stepping stone
To say if it works can only be down to that person

Amazin! :d

sure

I hope everything goes well with your mother
You have any idea when you'll do it?

To be fair, as soon as I can, it'd be easiest Sunday as I have work until then and after then

Well if you're ready, do it. Doing it on god's day 👌

I just wonder if I can do it properly without first thinking about _what_ I need to forgive her for or not. I can remember little things. I know a couple of big things.

Hah true

I think it will come naturally when you start
As long as you're being honest and not trying to hide things you want to say to her

Sounds about right

Don't want to say*

That's how I imagine it

Like I've had conversations with my mother
She is so blue pilled
Plus I know she will reject everything I say
Blame my absent father, blame me and anyone/anything else

But I have to do it

You do

And ultimately it's not about her and her reaction right?

But about you and God

Exactly
That's what I feel Jesse is getting across to people who call up and are unsure of doing it

Aslong as you make things right

Doesn't matter what happens after

You made peace

But you have to mean it right

When I forgive my dad, I wasn't even planning on it, he just asked because I was talking about my mother. I immediately felt a release and a sort of joy, in my heart, like physically

I think that's why it's important to say it to them

you can't lie to yourself then

That sounds amazing
Did he take it okay?
But perhaps God was guiding you into taking that step also

Yeah he seemed very relieved

:)

It must take some weight off of your shoulders

Indeed