exactly

why is that so hard for people to understand?

Yes

Marrige is about tolerance...I tolerate you because emutualy benificial🤣🤣🤣 jk I love my wife

i feel you.

her and i have been friends for 5 years.

we only started dating 3 months ago

heh oh boy

be careful

nah not like “friend zone”

i actually had her in the friend zone.

that was my ex-wife, we were childhood friends that decided to date in high school

that’s cute

😍

You can always do forplay and non penitration sex that's not a sin I hear

we were together for 17 years

and you divorced?

then she was like "yeah I never loved you, I got everything I want now, get out of my life"

just out of the blue

oof

You've got a chance coolman. Me and mine; I fucked up, the emotional scars are still present 10 years later. Don't have sex before marriage boys

lol me and my girl had a baby before I proposed

its fine

I personally dunno about abstinence. Me and my wife lived together for 3.5 years before getting married. But marriage is for life and should not be treated like there's an exit door unless under dire emergency

I had lots of sex B4 merrige and I have a super faithful amazing woman.

marriage is for life, period

we’re waiting.

but women never think so

as far as I can tell

but because we haven’t had sex, everything else about her has been amplified and magnified. her quirks, her personality, her attitude, etc.

my fear, is after sex, what else is there?

and not to mention, every woman i’ve ever had sex with didn’t want anything to do with me after the fact.

Yah abstinence is begging for cheating you can't resist chemicles but once you agree to it you feel pressure to not let the other down so you end up with someone else

If you can decide that you want to get married to someone without knowing what the sex feels like. Not marrying so that you can have sex but marrying because you want to grow old with that person. Then it doesn't matter if the sex is bad because that's not why you married in the first place. Both of your bodies are going to break down anyway

“be my gf?”

“no, sorry.”

“be my gf.”

“no, sorry.”

homie is pretty based... 😁

as long as sex has the same priority for both people then it won't matter

Agreed I DNT even like sex

in my experience

yeah, now I am, sure do wish I could slap my past self cause he definitely needed it

i’d rather not get too attached before we get married

because if we split, then we can be amicable.

but if you get one person who wants sex all the time and it needs to be rough or whatever and the other person doesn't need it that often, yeah its gonna be a big deal and it'll get in the way