Thank you guys for telling this too because sometimes i forget that it happens to everyone

Before I divulge any personal information to someone, I ask myself, “Is there anyway this person could subsequently use this information against me.”

The answer is always yes.

I used to be very trusting. But I’ve been burned too many times.

The alternative is to run out of damns, shits, or fucks.

And, since I'm pretty much all out, casual information is fine.

I don't concern myself with it because I've corrected the software to exclude compromising information.

Before this thing happened, a long time ago i had "friends" but they were just people using me to do their stuff

Arguably, that's what most "friends" are.

You will be counted among the most fortunate to have a handful of people you can honestly rely on.

I mean, three people you can trust to bring you a shovel at 2a makes you top 1% of 1%.

If you get my meaning.

I have 1 friend that *might* be at that level.

I don’t even have one person I can trust to bring me a plastic fork at lunch time.

Really Mr house?

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But right now i do have some friends that i learn from

I always wanted to have the "Frodo/Sam" relationship with a guy.

Someone who will be with me through thick and thin

But that'll never happen

In today’s society a Frodo/Sam relationship between two men would be shamed as gay.

Friends come and go all the time, even good ones

I don't know that much about Frodo/Sam but i think i know what you are talking about

I don't care

They can shame me

I don't care

I’ve been to other countries where friendship between men was much closer. Even to the extent of holding hands. But there is no gay subtext.

They know men are strong together

So break them apart with shaming

And what's worse is that i'm still very young and that happened

Women hate male friendships as they want all the attention. They break them apart with shaming just as you said.

Be friends with women, they’re superior

But in all seriousness the Damon and Pythias thing isn’t everlasting, atleast not in the ideal way

Something I could not but to point out... Tradcons you say that you want an obedient idle wife, Dont you realize thay such creatires are the perfect worker drone for the market to act upon, and the perfect sheep for demagogues? tradcon women are specially conditioned to bend to the biggest authority around? as Hilter said: "first you get the women, then the children, so will follow the men"

on topic

I have distance freinds who have been fiercly loyal to me... and despite the very different life paths we tend to think alike more often than not

He's dutch/spanish. I'm uruguayam

Yeah people come and go all the time, life is much easier when you accept that

I learned that from this youtuber named something with "Elliot" he had a video where he explains that peoples opinions on you change all the time

The body builder guy?

Yeah