Message from @Sparky

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2019-05-28 06:32:19 UTC  

Meow

2019-05-28 06:32:24 UTC  

Ahh bummer. I was going to say that you could use that as a justification for coming up hot. It's your medicine when you have hone time. Just don't show up high.

2019-05-28 06:32:49 UTC  

Word

2019-05-28 06:33:33 UTC  

Also if you're with a chill company and you're a good driver they might let you slide. Just obviously don't show up to work under the influence.

2019-05-28 06:33:53 UTC  

Cause they need drivers and bad.

2019-05-28 06:34:09 UTC  

Lol the demand is that bad?

2019-05-28 06:34:55 UTC  

There was even talk in the industry of the government instituting conscription for cdl drivers. But i doubt that will happen. That might help put the demand into perspective for you though.

2019-05-28 06:35:21 UTC  

Yeah man nobody wants to be a over the road driver, except maybe a mgtow with no family life.

2019-05-28 06:35:47 UTC  

Ya that's me

2019-05-28 06:35:49 UTC  

Lol

2019-05-28 06:36:23 UTC  

Well then you're getting into the right field. You'll have tons of alone time

2019-05-28 06:37:29 UTC  

I'm only doing it to save up for diesel mechanics school and to save money on my tuition since getting your cdl class a is a requirement for graduation.

2019-05-28 06:38:17 UTC  

What do you guys think of railroad jobs for MGTOW?

2019-05-28 06:38:39 UTC  

I know nothing about the field.

2019-05-28 06:39:17 UTC  

But probably any field that doesn't have a large female employee base would make a good mgtow career.

2019-05-28 06:40:33 UTC  

Like you'd want to avoid any sort of office position for example.

2019-05-28 06:42:44 UTC  

I'm off to bed good night and thank you for the info/advice

2019-05-28 06:43:26 UTC  

You're welcome. I hope it helps. Go to any truck stop and hang around with the drivers, they'll talk.

2019-05-28 06:43:48 UTC  

Good night. I'm off to bed as well.

2019-05-28 06:43:58 UTC  

2019-05-28 06:57:06 UTC  

I appreciate the advice. What I struggle with relates to masturbation, or so that is what I think is the problem, so by that conclusion much of the pushing forward with the materials like studying for a test/exam sounds to me as though it is meaningless advice based on the thing that I think my problem is related with. @Head Scribe Drayanor @ResolvingParadox13

2019-05-28 06:57:59 UTC  

<:why:480186116222353410> this sounds so pathetic .

2019-05-28 06:58:20 UTC  

Nah man I think we can all relate

2019-05-28 06:58:56 UTC  

This would not have happened if I did not have a phone.

2019-05-28 06:59:28 UTC  

Or rather is it my fault?

2019-05-28 06:59:32 UTC  

So the question is, how you can discipline yourself to solve this...

2019-05-28 06:59:37 UTC  

Am not sure.

2019-05-28 06:59:40 UTC  

My advice to you: set restrictions on yourself. If masterbation, for one reason or another, happens to be your vice then make it a reward and not a habit. That's what I did when I was studying math and doing shit in the class. I would not do nothing happy for myself until I passed the test. Not finish my studying, not ending the night, outright passing the test with at least a B was how I motivated myself to indulge myself one way or another. Make the same logic apply to your masturbation and you'll not only do better in class, but have a habit to strive for your relief while simultaneously doing a lot better in class.

2019-05-28 07:00:04 UTC  

Yeah, best thing I can think of is like the above. Set aside a certain time everyday for this.

2019-05-28 07:00:12 UTC  

Trying to go cold turkey will just make it worse

2019-05-28 07:00:24 UTC  

Don't set a time, a set time means guarnteeing what will happen

2019-05-28 07:00:30 UTC  

Make it a reward, not a schedule

2019-05-28 07:00:45 UTC  

What does going 'cold turkey' mean?

2019-05-28 07:00:46 UTC  

A reward, right. Guess that's better....

2019-05-28 07:00:57 UTC  

Dropping it without weening yourself off

2019-05-28 07:00:59 UTC  

@Sparky Trying to quit absolutely right away

2019-05-28 07:01:37 UTC  

Yeah. Smokers usually try to quit by moving to Nicotene patches, and then reducing the Nicotine dose slightly over time until they don't need Nicotene at all anymore. j

2019-05-28 07:01:52 UTC  

Also, scare tactics work well also. If push comes to shoves, do a hail mary and completely break yourself. By this I mean masturbate to something so god awful that you would never find joy in doing it again.

2019-05-28 07:01:56 UTC  

Going cold turkey would just be ceasing Nicotene intake suddenly and permanently.

2019-05-28 07:02:41 UTC  

I feel like a disgrace to be admitting this here.

2019-05-28 07:02:51 UTC  

@Sparky You could try mindfulness meditation? It often helps externalize your addictions/desires