As long as you don't get into any of those, you have the option to bail at any moment.

Does she live close to your family/work?

As of now, we're just in a monogamous relationship. No other connections besides that.

She lives far away from me but goes to school in my city

As long as both of you are behaving yourselves and you have your eyes open, don't change anything.

She'll give you cause soon enough.

Probably after she graduates.

🤔

Oh, speaking of which, what's her degree?

What do you think she'll do after she graduates? Is there some kind of common pattern?
She's majoring in music. She hopes to play in a national/state orchestra and is working on a Master's

I'm not sure that's a real viable career option.

I agree, but she comes from parents who also have Master's degrees in the same thing.

I just checked online.

LA Symphony players start at $150k/yr

Pasadena Philharmonic makes $4k/yr

Community orchestras are usually just fun.

Private music teacher can pull $80k/yr

But zip recruiter reports $61k average for the private music teachers.

She's either goddamn good or goddamn wasting everyone's time.

Most music majors at my college party hard and do little work XD

I mean, she doesn't have to make as much as or more than me.

Oh, do you plan to support her?

No

What was the quote? "She's not yours, it's just your turn"?

College will demonstrate that literally

Hmm? How so?

Then it's definitely just your turn.

Speaking of which, what's your major?

Business

lol, really?

Yep

Bachelors? Masters?

Are you going to Whartons or Brown?

Bachelor's

How far into it are you?

No

I recently graduated

Rough.

Any jobs using it?

Yep. I have something lined up

I'm impressed.