😂 😂 😂

Haha, well I treat her well and she does the same for me. Of course I need to look out for myself too.

No clue. Good luck. <@241391082238246912>

So, are you new to mgtow?

I fear that if I keep treating her well, she'll begin to take it for granted and start to walk all over me, but she hasn't done anything to make me think this. I think watching a lot of mgtow videos has put me in a sort of pessimistic mindset.

You are right to be cautious.

I wouldn't say I'm new, but this is the first time I've really takes about my personal life.

But, tbh, they are not all screeching harpies.

Some of them don't bother screeching.

Sorry to say mate, she'll show her nature sooner or later

Talked*

That's what I'm worried about

There are three things that will prevent you from pulling the rip cord and bailing.

I won't be surprised if she does, but I'd be hurt because it would be like "wow, mgtow was 100% right."

Children, property, business.

Business includes marriage.

It's gonna be hard, but you'll thank yourself in the future for ending it.

As long as you don't get into any of those, you have the option to bail at any moment.

Does she live close to your family/work?

As of now, we're just in a monogamous relationship. No other connections besides that.

She lives far away from me but goes to school in my city

As long as both of you are behaving yourselves and you have your eyes open, don't change anything.

She'll give you cause soon enough.

Probably after she graduates.

🤔

Oh, speaking of which, what's her degree?

What do you think she'll do after she graduates? Is there some kind of common pattern?
She's majoring in music. She hopes to play in a national/state orchestra and is working on a Master's

I'm not sure that's a real viable career option.

I agree, but she comes from parents who also have Master's degrees in the same thing.

I just checked online.

LA Symphony players start at $150k/yr

Pasadena Philharmonic makes $4k/yr

Community orchestras are usually just fun.

Private music teacher can pull $80k/yr

But zip recruiter reports $61k average for the private music teachers.

She's either goddamn good or goddamn wasting everyone's time.

Most music majors at my college party hard and do little work XD

I mean, she doesn't have to make as much as or more than me.

Oh, do you plan to support her?

No

What was the quote? "She's not yours, it's just your turn"?