I suppose that if I find them non atractive I may be able to not get attached but then what is the point.

The point is you become free from mental chains women “have you in”

I am too trusting a times, unless I am using my neocortex and critizise everything, but my brain shutdown when I get attached.

I don't know how much is biology and how much the environment where I grew

I have been avoiding women for a while now, I ignore any signals of women, showing they are attracted.

I dont know how much of our psychological makeup we can attribute to biology. However I find if you stay conscious and diligent in fine tuning your reactions, actions and thoughts towards whatever “ideal” you choose. It might be possible to become the ideal you want to be.

I find that im more dismissive of women at work, than outside.

But outside of work, the only women I talk with are due to necessity or pure chance.

That are strangers

Otherwise the women are relatives

When I am in a good mental state I get women nevous aground me or they use body language to get my attention, I just see it and don't act on it

*Girls are like parking spots.. all the good ones are taken and the rest are too far away or are handicapped.*
~Elvir Doko

(except there are no good ones)

Do you feel your mental states are rare and out of your hand? @misanthrope

Good mental states*

I was abused for some time by a bordeine spouse, so I am mostly recovered but sometimes I close myself.

I don't want a repeat experience of the sort ever again

You are not alone having a story like that mate

What I describe as a good mental state, is a relaxed, confident state; when I am like this women note me and start to get my attention.

In part it is because I am not bad looking; and I have good symmetry.

like a gilt turd

I find that many of the traits of my ex in normal women that that scares me,

what is a glit turd? @Xychotic

Lmao gilt = golden

Hes fucking with you

At times I think that borderline is just feminine nature with out a filter.

Anyways but those days when you feel relaxed and confident are they rare to come by?

just pure and unadulterated biology

I agree

In the past months not to often, as I have been stressed due to legal matters; when there is no stress it is relatively often.

once I was able to recover from my borderline experience.

Oh ok yeah sort out all the stress

I can't do much about that, I will do whatever I can; but at one point I will have to see for my health.

Family court is hell

@misanthrope, Hey are you admin of jolly heretic server?

yep

great

didn't expect edward dutton audience had any interest in MGTOW

i dont believe he has ever commented on MGTOW

though i have not followed him from the start

he does in a way, if you read his books he has many notions of woman nature that are on point