and now he's in retirement in bad health, stubborn as hell, its pretty much game over

So you don’t have a good relationship with him. Right?

right

I understand.

I sense that you are a gentle and sensitive person. Am I wrong?

you're correct

I’ll explain you why I’m asking.

You might want to become a psychiatrist or something, you're asking the right questions, lol

therapist*

Sorry if I am making too many questions.

no, go on

The only reason why I am here is to understand well what’s going on in the manosphere.

YouTube gives you only a general model or frame of the issue.

Talking to fellow redpillers helps me going deeper with the knowledge.

I asked you these questions because I think that one of the causes of men’s frustrations with women

Is the fact that us men as a community, have rejected our fathers.

And our fathers have neglected , abandoned or straight out despised us.

We tried to be different from those who betrayed our trust and we treated women like we treated our victim, sad mothers.

With our great shock, not only women rejected this kind of behavior, but became hostile and disrespectful towards us.

Feminism did the rest.

I wrote too much, but I hope the message is clear. Do you agree?

You're 100% accurate in my opinion.

I knew very early on i wasn't getting married

because I haven't seen it work

and I avoid women. Earlier I thought it was because i was insecure and scared

but as i've become a young man and worked on myself, I've realized they aren't worth the effort

or risk

I'm honestly happier then i've ever been.

Funny thing is I avoided going to a wedding this weekend

I don't like going to weddings

people may take it as disrespect but I am against marriage, again, because I haven't seen it work

I know people who are married but they aren't happy or are afraid of being alone

The only exception is young, fairly newlywed couples

and for them i think its just a matter of time

I probably do resent my dad for his actions and his lack of guidance

I learned most of what I know on my own or through reading, and watching his mistakes

You have your reasons to feel that way and it’s not your fault.

Now i'm 28 and I'm content.

It's going to be a LONG life on my own but i'm focused on retiring early for now. Going to take a few years.

Also consider that the world is full to the brim of Snarkyfellas.

I think the crisis of father/son relationship is to be blamed as much as feminism for the current situation of society.