Message from @HotNoob
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spot on
just mansplain
^
best defense, will piss them the fuck off
but, best in long run
๐
that is a good gif
Anyway, somebody wanted an expansion on how your relationshits change when you move out? @YuriBezmenov
We still the same age bro?
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I think yuri's dead
Sorry
Im back
No worries.
Yeah specifically with your mom
my parents realized they were wrong, and i was right, when i moved out, and became successful.
so, i got much more respect from them.
Or parents even
Once you moved out
Cuz Im at that point where I got to get the fuck out
Ok... how can I explain. You don't have to see her face to face. Hell, you don't have to call her if you don't want to. You don't have to maintain contact, and if you don't, your Mom will initially do nothing but bitch like crazy. She will be in denial that, her baby (or slave) is gone and no longer under her control.
good explanation, my mom chases me too.
Until, eventually, reality sets in (be careful of your own conscience here) cause your mom *might* take it rather harshly and basically beg you for attention from then on.
calls me up, invites me for dinner, blah blah blah...
My mom will probably will do that
@YuriBezmenov That's probably the hardest part for both you and your mom. But after that? Hell, no strings attached. You can have any conversation you want and just listen to the shock in her voice over the phone. I mean, she is your Mom, so I'm not saying you have license to treat her like total shit. But you can have *actual* conversations now that *are not one sided*.
You can say whatever the fuck you want. Tell her to STFU and say your piece because she will respect you and your space.
yup, told my mom im mgtow
and she found that some of her friends were mgtow lol
Love how our mothers are from different cultures yet so similar
how i found one of my irl mgtow friends, lol.
Then, the relationship from there can get better or worse. My mom actually got surprisingly better in the aftermath but still bitches occasionally about mothers day flowers or chocolates. The bottom line is that your mom changes from an Authoritarian figure to just another person.
Did you tell her youโre leaving before you left or she came home and you were gone one day?
well said repo
best to let her know your leaving...
then she will give you going away gifts / supplies / help you out a bit if she is not a cunt ๐
@YuriBezmenov I told her I was leaving beforehand. One thing to know: the decision to tell your parents or not is completely up to you, and if you're old enough there's nothing they can do to stop you legally. However, I can guarantee your mom will try the usual manipulative bullshit, so hide anything valuable to you (collectibles, projects, etc.) because she will try to fucking hide them or take them away like you're a fucking 12 year old.
yeah, pack everything before you tell her.
Yea I would only do once its confirmed and Ive packed my important shit
You need to realize that you'll always be your mom's kid in her mind (at least for normal Mothers) and when you're moving out, it will take a while for reality to set in.