Message from @KirkpattieCake

Discord ID: 793554629899976724


2020-12-29 18:44:23 UTC  

I trust other people have the tactics to reach people I can't. This server as a whole is inspiring for the diversity of thought and people on it.

2020-12-29 18:45:56 UTC  

You guys are big brain and big patience

2020-12-29 18:46:18 UTC  

I don’t have anything to add wth the laws, the boys don’t cry I ha more to input because I thought people evolved to not curb

2020-12-29 18:46:59 UTC  

Also is she assuming only white women have this or

2020-12-29 18:49:24 UTC  

The author I mean

2020-12-29 18:57:25 UTC  

I think the author is “proving” that white homes can’t function with non whites

2020-12-29 18:57:51 UTC  

not sure about big brain <:KEK:726877368601411624> still trying to absorb as much as i can

2020-12-29 18:58:03 UTC  

Oh I gave up trying to understand lmao

2020-12-29 18:58:41 UTC  

tbf, maybe she thinks asian men are all living like kings and have harems or something lmao

2020-12-29 18:59:05 UTC  

like we’re stuck in the 2000BCE

2020-12-29 18:59:45 UTC  

i can get the time and money argument, but "emotional labour"? okay? so that's why we're excusing terrible parenting?

2020-12-29 19:00:21 UTC  

probably never go out to other countries, and if she does she's on vacation resorts, not in the inner cities where native people lives

2020-12-29 19:00:23 UTC  

Money and time is usually from accidents or poor planning too

2020-12-29 19:00:30 UTC  

She lives in Toronto btw

2020-12-29 19:00:37 UTC  

lmao, I think she's trying, but it just makes her look like she hates motherhood. She already ranted about how disgusting and ashamed she felt when she was pregnant.

2020-12-29 19:00:41 UTC  

I think she just has... other issues

2020-12-29 19:01:02 UTC  

Brb

2020-12-29 19:01:43 UTC  

Parenthood is definitely expensive and time consuming. Family planning is a thing for a reason. But complaining about being there emotionally for your children is... so immature and selfish

2020-12-29 19:02:22 UTC  

Damn she's dumb

2020-12-29 19:02:45 UTC  

exactly. and i think she's using the "emotional toll" as an excuse for bad parenting. "i can't love my kids because my work is stressing me out"

2020-12-29 19:02:47 UTC  

She's from Toronto and mentioned working/living in London and vising NYC. But she also said she could not comment on Asian cities or cities outside of the major western staples.

2020-12-29 19:02:59 UTC  

I wonder why

2020-12-29 19:04:05 UTC  

ah yes. as expected. <:KEK:726877368601411624> i'm not even sure whether to laugh or cry because these people are hating themselves/their cultures without actually comparing it to different cultures

2020-12-29 19:04:38 UTC  

And then they accuse DT of this

2020-12-29 19:06:10 UTC  

DT certainly accelerates the culture war and snap many out of it

2020-12-29 19:07:40 UTC  

I think it's also fair to surmise at this point...

2020-12-29 19:07:42 UTC  

she's a single mother

2020-12-29 19:08:17 UTC  

No talk of a husband or baby daddy, just her child, her job, and going about a city by yourself.

2020-12-29 19:09:36 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/762720224268910632/793556344673796116/Screenshot_20201229-140929_Lithium.jpg

2020-12-29 19:09:51 UTC  

She just sounds like she's unprepared and didn't want to be a mother and is mad she can't act like a single person

2020-12-29 19:09:56 UTC  

but I don't know why she had a child

2020-12-29 19:10:03 UTC  

Shouldn't have banged the guy then

2020-12-29 19:10:07 UTC  

<:thinking:726878987837636698>

2020-12-29 19:10:13 UTC  

beyond some kind of power move of "look, I'm the ultimate feminist single mom, career, and child"

2020-12-29 19:11:22 UTC  

That's a little too big brain I think

2020-12-29 19:13:33 UTC  

>"i'm a feminist single mom, career, and child"
>"but i hate it"

2020-12-29 19:14:01 UTC  

I get more:
>I hate this child for taking away my freedom

2020-12-29 19:15:45 UTC  

I feel like this projection really says how she feels about parenting...

2020-12-29 19:16:01 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/762720224268910632/793557956628578324/Screenshot_20201229-141554_Lithium.jpg

2020-12-29 19:17:12 UTC  

She did just say they only had one car and this is the 80s if that adds anything.

2020-12-29 19:21:12 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/762720224268910632/793559261548249108/Screenshot_20201229-142103_Lithium.jpg