Message from @Rendezvous
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Where do I go from here?
I mean he's nice
But not alpha
well now you know what to forgive him of
Yes
Should I walk up to him and tell him
You're weak?
mmmm i would first say you forgive him for being weak, he'll probably want to know why you think he is weak, so jsut tell him why and just tell him you forgive him and that he couldn't help it
with men it's easier, cause some of them actualyl acknowledge their sin and usually be willign to work past it
My dad is like a woman though
It was easier to forgive my mother
well not all men it is easier, just on a genral whole
lol your mom was easier, really? that kind surprises me, usualyl that bitch will deny and worm around it to the grave
I just said
I forgive you for spoiling me with free stuff
She acted weird and it was over
lol
With my dad
It is tough
Don't know why
So i can handle women
Not men sometimes
well the dad is usualyl the symbol of a kids' strength, so it's hard to think of them as weak or to forgive them for weakness
Exactly
Well put
I see him acting like a good father
But in my heart i know he wants to beat the shit out of me
So it all comes out as
Passive aggressive
ah i see, i almsot wonder if that's how your mom was towards him? the passive aggressive i mean
Yes
interesting
so you're still kinda playing out your mom and yoru dad's relationship, but fro mthe role of your mom
Yes
i would say not just forgive your dad, but maybe try to get to know him and his side of all that a lil more. Not to be a JLP cliche clone, but it really is effective, I think it will bring you greater peace and understanding
I know his side through my grandfather
Lol
i mean his side of the story lol
I think my dad will cry
Because I see him in so much spiritual pain