Message from @BobbyMack

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2020-09-12 16:34:07 UTC  

And coming on and saying someone is a sexual predator without evidence falls into that category.

2020-09-12 16:34:30 UTC  

but im not saying he is a sexual predator

2020-09-12 16:34:44 UTC  

No but that's what the original claim was.

2020-09-12 16:35:21 UTC  

Ok. but this is something else now no?

2020-09-12 16:35:36 UTC  

I'm not sure.

2020-09-12 16:35:49 UTC  

Haa..

2020-09-12 16:37:55 UTC  

is discussing our standards of evidance about a defamation and where it should lie socialy vs judicially, using specific cases that were contrevertial defamation ?

2020-09-12 16:38:55 UTC  

I just wasn't sure if the guy who made the original claim had shifted gears, that's all.

2020-09-12 16:39:53 UTC  

we dont know that yet lol I just really want to know what you and @T2the2ndpowr think about what i said

2020-09-12 17:01:28 UTC  

He claims they had a discussion about it beforehand. I tend to doubt that, but I still don't think it's predatory. It sounds like it's part of the awkward interactions that humans have when trying to navigate the sexual landscape

2020-09-12 17:02:09 UTC  

You see but its a he said she said. and we both cannot know what happened there.

2020-09-12 17:02:23 UTC  

From my social experiance

2020-09-12 17:02:35 UTC  

Yes, but even if I were to go with what she said, it still doesn't sound predatory

2020-09-12 17:03:02 UTC  

predatory =\= rapey

2020-09-12 17:03:02 UTC  

It sounds like he was misreading body language and other social cues, so he took the first step, and then she left.

2020-09-12 17:03:13 UTC  

=///=

2020-09-12 17:04:41 UTC  

but at the same time i dont think its that clear. we dont know what he as understading and its completely within the relm of reason that just like in countless other examples people in power behave in ways that excerise that power

2020-09-12 17:05:18 UTC  

we cannot simply dissmiss it in my estimation

2020-09-12 17:07:51 UTC  

I think we pretty much can, unless more evidence comes out. There's a thousand things that get lost in translation when trying to speak about an event like this a year later, or even an hour later. The most important part of this is that as soon as she said she needed to go, she did. She didn't say he protested or stood in front of the door, or anything like that

2020-09-12 17:09:18 UTC  

I honestly think these allegations have merits

2020-09-12 17:09:26 UTC  

And constitute some kind of evidence

2020-09-12 17:10:31 UTC  

Again this is in no way evidence worthy of conviction or even defamation. but its is worth taking seriously.

2020-09-12 17:10:54 UTC  

there is a track record of a few years and complaints

2020-09-12 17:11:10 UTC  

its not some consiritorial hit jib

2020-09-12 17:11:38 UTC  

or even a panic caused by vanity most of the wemon didnt even want to be named

2020-09-12 17:11:50 UTC  

But I'm wondering why there's so many independent allegations spanning like a decade.

2020-09-12 17:11:54 UTC  

But what does "taking seriously" look like? There's no way we can prosecute, and this accusation forced him to resign his position at university, and it will be in the first paragraph of his wikipedia article until he dies, right up there with all his books and accolades and research. To me, that's taking seriously

2020-09-12 17:12:15 UTC  

Maybe not beyond reasonable doubt, but it's not baseless at this point

2020-09-12 17:12:17 UTC  

but there is no tyrany of the state

2020-09-12 17:12:32 UTC  

social implications are just that

2020-09-12 17:13:17 UTC  

mike pence is not worng in a social world we should be very careful about how we conduct our selves

2020-09-12 17:14:09 UTC  

Some of these allegations are kind of ridiculous anyways. Even if he did them, it's like so what? But a lot of them are actually serious

2020-09-12 17:24:15 UTC  

@Jarlkage Productions my question for you is this: if we believe women when they say something happened, shouldn't we also believe men when they say it didn't?

2020-09-12 17:25:37 UTC  

It's not much about believing every or any accusation. It's more about what best explains this amount of independent allegations spanning from like 2006

2020-09-12 17:26:08 UTC  

But some of these accusations are basically tales of hypersensitive bitches who can't take jokes

2020-09-12 17:26:15 UTC  

Right.

2020-09-12 17:26:29 UTC  

It's like who cares if Lawrence Krauss cracked a joke to some woman about guys asking her on a date

2020-09-12 17:26:42 UTC  

I agree

2020-09-12 17:26:43 UTC  

@m.miller very right