Message from @Donut Steel Tendies
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It kind of crushes the TRP idea of gender attraction differential, right?
Don't even know what that is lol
It's the idea that 50%of women only go for top 20% of men
The 20/80 rule
Not everything is physical
Maybe you weren't genetically blessed, but you're charming and confident and intelligent and that turns the girl onto you
From what I understand - look are important for girls but they're not the only thing they want in a guy
They matter, but they're not the end all be all.
My only real drawbacks are that I'm short (5 7) and skinny
What's more important than looks is ability to provide, protect, be socially recognised, etc...
Why is that a drawback?
There are many types of alphas. It's a mindset not a body type.
Dunno, it makes me feel bad about myself
Not the skinny part though. I'm totally fine with being skinny
The most alpha guy I've ever met was the grandpa of my girlfriend. An architect who was entrepreneurial, provided for his 7 kids, still hits the gym everyday and can do more pullups than most 18 year olds. He stood at about 5'4"
He sounds cool
Don't let it bother you at all, 5'7" is barely even short
80% of girls are under 5'7" , so you've got a lot of options
I wouldn't even mind dating someone taller than me tbh
even better, so it doesn't affect you at all
I'm not too picky at all about body features too
Except fat, I really really dislike that
if you feel bad it's only cause the media has made you think tall = the only type of alpha
Mainstream media is dying anyway and we will all take a piss on its grave lol
It's normal, we seek the most healthy and fit partner to mate with
Fatness is mostly a choice
It's just that there are very few girls in my course lol
TBH I like a tiny bit because it shows abundance - like everyone has more than enough to eat. Very primitive I know aha. But yes unhealthy fatness is definitely a choice. However it's very healthy and natural to have a bit. What you see in magazines is the work of anorexia and photoshop.
You gotta branch out man! I'm sure you're in STEM, right?
Aviation Engineering
If I don't drop out lol
It's very hard
Do you have any interests in the arts, literature, music and so on?
I feel you, dropped out of my course.
What happened?
Studied international business, realized I was learning nothing and wasting my time to only at the end of it get a job crunching numbers
I never wanted to work for anyone else but myself, and I've always been an entrepreneur at heart
Dropped out, told everyone I took a gap year, and focused on my business
I haven't failed any exams yet but this semester I might not be able to submit all my work in time for exams
If you're passionate about what you're doing and the course isn't BS then stick with it