to believe you again

so I just wanted to check

yeah just be honest

had a fair enough reasoning

Yeah I suppose I wouldn't want lessons on building mud huts from a twenty year old

my first reaction would be no you fucking haven't lived like that kid

Don't make him anxious

he'll be fine

He'll resort to bed talks

if he wouldn't be, he wouldn't have come clean, there was no pressure to

Yeah really I'm just asking questions

even, now it can be taken back

not debating shit

I just like to know about people's lives and shit

My ENFP friend is in a bad spot

he thinks he needs ritalin

because he cant stay focused on any one thing for long

like at a job he will make friends with everyone and it will be great

but 6 months in he will be behind work because he just cant do it

but no one notices cause they love him

any advice

Yes

Is he gay?

he is straight but yes

he was in #heavy for a bit, Apple

what I do to avoid that is just rush to finish something as quickly as possible. You can't fucking stop to do anything or you'll end up talking on discord or bullshitting with coworkers

I told him that

"just do it"

I can't focus for shit on work unless I just throw myself at something

he says he tried

but I don't believe him

do you

It's his profession

he's doing a fucking PhD now

seems like a disaster waiting to happen

to me

He needs to get in something like counseling or managing people whatever

yeah that's what I said, you gotta care about it

is that true

Like I did very well overseeing production and shooting the shit with guys in the Assembly rooms at the last place I worked

Managers should be lateral thinkers and multitaskers