which is itself probably a struggle

You are kind. I have a harder time being kind to him, since he regularly attacks and demeans me.

the traditional binds, once broken

they dont just come back

the old systems, unspoken

of finding good mates

they were never "in the open"

so when they are gone, people dont even notice

or dont miss them, until the need arises

I did not realize parental input in marriage was the rule in western society as well

until quite recently

yes.

how old are your kids @Jake Saga ?

I am a bit disappointed I had my first kid at 31

was gunning for 27-28 at most

didn't work out

I think there should be some allowance for later reproduction in "egghead" kind of people

who in modern times need a lot of education etc.

Allowance by whom?

but should still be well within 20s

in a social manner

i.e. if you dont have kids by the time you are 30

people should whisper

in your presence

and for non egghead types, early 20s at the latest for first child

millenials use their twenties to shit up society

lets put that energy to use in raising a shitlord generation instead

I am not against such strangely un-American kind of social controls, but at this point, we whites needs all the god damned babies we can get. I don't care what the age of the father is, as long as they have more.

it's not unamerican though, that's the thing

until recently, among all white societies

a woman who was not having children into her 30s

was considered to be very odd indeed

I agree on encouraging early fatherhood, but at this point, the pressure should be on to have children , as many as possible.

agreed.

those days are done except in very traditional societies.

I don't think you can kill such things ultimately

the continuity is broken, sure

you can't rely on the old pressures

I have to work but if you wish to discuss my actual personal life, you can ping me on a private channel.

we can remake the old pressures.

but the basic impulse exists, so with reorientation it should heal