that's just normal human behaviour I think, keep the outgroup out

kafir singular, kuffar plural

all human society, including the west, controlled marriage and reproduction pretty strictly

parentally arranged marriage was the rule even in the west

In my opinion the West has lost its way

Like completely off the beaten path

yeah

unfortunate

and it remains to be seen whether the reaction to that will be corrective

or destructive

Funny thing is we were warned

Kruschev said they would destroy us from within

Arranged marriages in the west crossed tribal lines. The unromanticized truth is that they are a strategic game game who's goal is to maximize family's social status and estate. It is on par with OKcupid empowered one night stands in vulgarity and materialism.

where's the equivalence

an argument to distinguish would be that jockeying for material advantages for a family in a marriage from which many other benefits flow to other aspects of the social fabric is different from a pure-sex arrangement that captures no benefits to any aspect of society except corporate judaism

hang on

what is wrong with a match for status, estate etc.

and compatibility

this is materialism of a different sort than sensate hedonism

@Sriadobada : http://charltonteaching.blogspot.co.uk/2015/11/the-science-of-sex-most-important.html

Two examples of vulgarity that come to mind is that the materialistic concerns see the upper castes looking beyond their tribe to secure a larger estate. There is of course famous cases of inbred houses. The effect trickles downward as the rigidity of caste places and upper limit, encouraging such things as cousin marriage. Nevermind that at the level of the married man and woman that they were denied participation in the usual modes of primate courtship.

spare me your blogperson

wait so we have to listen to your fake academic tone but you are above other peoples' fake academic tone?

Charlton is a real academic, actually

I just got in a huge fight with a client who is a complete fucking idiot and i'm riding high on conflict endorphins

dope

what habbid

I find even in business people make it hard to work with them

this guy 1) wants me to make an argument that can't win because it's already been decided and not at issue anymore and wants me to make it 2) in the wrong filing

so if I make his stupid argument i wreck my cred with the judge and potentially get my client sanctioned

so he is screaming at you for not screwing him over

i'm not doing that for this idiot so I told him it's my way or he can find other counsel and I'll vacate the trial next week for free

I hope he buys crap off amazon

haha

he's too bugman to scream at me

he just hyperventilates and takes long silences

fag

and he'll call my boss later, who tells me i'm way too nice to the guy

but yeah basically he doesn't want to face the fact that he's not going to get exactly what he wants (his own fault from the start of this whole case) so he's getting mad I won't make the argument he wants even though i'm protecting him

by not making his stupid argument

do you think he may be a narcissist or sociopath?