Be productive and be a force to be reckoned with, find someone who can accept that and be a partner to you

very typical of a psych major

well what is everyone's advice on trying to figure out what you want to do?

These oldstyle conservatives always try to reduce women to appendages of the male stature and I find that to be so repulsive.

not trying to ask life advice but you know. .

many women will be much happier stying home and raising children nicole

Life is not about happiness

Life is about enduring pain in your striving for achievement

sure, women go through the pain of child birth

And I'd rather marry someone who has endured a goood amount of suffering for her goals than someone who waited for a man to wish them away

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but in terms after you reach those achievements doesn't it envoke happiness?

Sure, that's what positive emotion is. It's the result/reward for achievement

id rather marry a young woman in her prime age for bearing children

than one who's squandered away her youth chasing a fruitless career

Well the times have changed, and clearly you don't value the person you are marrying outside of their fertility.

striker how old are you

im in my 20s

why arent you married yet then

>times have changed its the current year!

I don't know I mean I feel I can offer more to life than that

damn this guy really is a psych major

No, times have changed and women are in the job market.

kids is a big part

but I am a smart person

I know I have a lot to offer

Lexi, I'm a man, it's socially and biologically acceptable for me to get married in my 30s

I am just not sure of my path I guess..

Men cannot do it alone anymore, and women perhaps undertaking jobs might price the men out. But that's the importance of finding someone who can fight aside you

Not someone who sucks the life out of you with their persistent need to be fed and kept alive

women need to consider 9-3 jobs and self employment so they can give children the correct attention

a woman who has worked is extremely valuable

women can work, nobody is arguing against that

stop creating this strawman

teaching supports that so its a good choice nicole

but children and strong families are necessary for a strong society

What constitutes familial strength? Linear gender roles? Who's to say that the homebound mother doesn't coddle the child into dependency and incompetency come adolescence?

and reinforcing family roles that have worked for centuries is how you create strong families

Who is to say that the family roles of yesteryear do not apply when both parents work?

There is NO evidence of that. None.

>trump

>mr. trump

>president trump

>***PRESIDENT*** trump

And that distortion is destructive. Because I know plenty of young women who just give up on work and become desperate for a man to knock them up and be stuck with them.

i see a pattern

Ambition in moratorium, it's so disgusting and pitiful.

>***__OVERLORD__*** trump

And women should feel worth MORE than that.

You're getting me so upset, lol.

yeah you're a typical psych major kid, all feels, this is fruitless

nicole, you'll probably be happier being a wife and mother

if you go switch fields, do something in stem

otherwise, have a family

Ironically this debate reminds me of the guy that recently just broke up with me he offered to pay for everything while i stayed home and yes I believe in raising kids but honestly.. how he worded that really bothered me because I feel I should not just have someone pay for my life for me but instead help my partner out.. I know that sounds cliche

Yeah, I will have to figure stuff out lol.. getting old over here 😛

right of shenter

he is just fucking with you

how old are you nicole?

^ good question

when i try to connect to voice chat it says no route

inb4 24

anyone have any idea why?

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@bystander nope sorry

are you on school wifi

lol no

update @bystander

update what?

wait

you're on vpn

i should be up to date

get off vpn

shupport for a shingle man

i always use a vpn with no problems

i am on vpn, how can you tell?

Oh sorry

i am 23

will be 24 in jan

sorry working on some work right now.. typing fitness plans for people ironically LOL

hahahAH

I knew it

I knew it

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does it really matter?

good call val

yes millennial

I am not even really saying anything

please never use that term again thank u

millennial

that is like terms used for morons most millennials mindset is so fucked.

like yours

you have a degree in psych

i have not said anything

no i don't?

tf

no?

no?