Message from @💀 🌺Nicole 🌺💀

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2017-10-05 10:02:52 UTC  

Do you have a bach in teaching?

elementary level but I am now thinking about switching my major because honestly teaching is not a good paying job which I knew walking into this.

2017-10-05 10:03:35 UTC  

Why don't you get a degree in the """(((arts)))"""

2017-10-05 10:03:39 UTC  

like all the others

yeah, it's a pretty awful field unless you're a college prof

So, I sit here struggling now to find like what I should get a degree in college has been a goal of mine

but idk

2017-10-05 10:04:09 UTC  

I intend to not only have a practice, but also teach and oversee student research

you'd probably be happier getting married and raising children

2017-10-05 10:04:28 UTC  

But I would teach at the college level

thats my advice nicole

this is what I mean everyone knows what they want to do but me and it is annoying lol.

get married and raise children

you'll be much happier

I mean .. honestly fitness is my passion but my parents want me to be a teacher so

2017-10-05 10:04:59 UTC  

No, don't slave away to the biological imperative. You'll end up with someone terrible for you

what terrible advice lmao

2017-10-05 10:05:18 UTC  

Be productive and be a force to be reckoned with, find someone who can accept that and be a partner to you

very typical of a psych major

well what is everyone's advice on trying to figure out what you want to do?

2017-10-05 10:05:54 UTC  

These oldstyle conservatives always try to reduce women to appendages of the male stature and I find that to be so repulsive.

not trying to ask life advice but you know. .

many women will be much happier stying home and raising children nicole

2017-10-05 10:06:11 UTC  

Life is not about happiness

2017-10-05 10:06:24 UTC  

Life is about enduring pain in your striving for achievement

sure, women go through the pain of child birth

2017-10-05 10:06:39 UTC  

And I'd rather marry someone who has endured a goood amount of suffering for her goals than someone who waited for a man to wish them away

2017-10-05 10:06:45 UTC  

Wisk*

but in terms after you reach those achievements doesn't it envoke happiness?

2017-10-05 10:07:05 UTC  

Sure, that's what positive emotion is. It's the result/reward for achievement

id rather marry a young woman in her prime age for bearing children

than one who's squandered away her youth chasing a fruitless career

2017-10-05 10:07:34 UTC  

Well the times have changed, and clearly you don't value the person you are marrying outside of their fertility.

2017-10-05 10:07:34 UTC  

striker how old are you

im in my 20s

2017-10-05 10:07:46 UTC  

why arent you married yet then

>times have changed its the current year!

I don't know I mean I feel I can offer more to life than that

damn this guy really is a psych major

2017-10-05 10:08:01 UTC  

No, times have changed and women are in the job market.