Ah.

I'm convinced.

i have two healthy hands, and my hands wont try to put me down, theyll hold my beer and my cigarette afterwards.

One minute you think one way.. And then you think another.

Just coming down on someone like a ton of bricks isn't exerting authority.

Your authority has to be established first.

Projecting much?

Why is that where your mind went?

"You must've meant coming down like a ton of bricks"

Oh. Did I..? Coulda sworn I didn't.. But okay.

its established by me refusing to conform to her expectations such as not seeing other girls or paying for her shit (if thats something she expects)

Them seeking counsel implies that the male lacks finesse enough for them to feel coerced.

If she asks you "does this dress make me look fat?" You say "only if you are wearing it, babe"

"No, the other way around..."

Also, you can kind of default to most men not intuitively understanding 'show, don't tell'

Since we think linearly

So I'm going to assume clumsiness first and then adjust my expectations if I see otherwise.

"I wouldn't say it's the dress"

The more generally we buckle under womens' demands, the worse things in general will be.

tbh, i cant see any reason for traditional dating

@Redneo it is the best time to get accused of sexual assault

They're Asian

You have a chance of making a dynasty/family

Even the good men project, a feminist organisation, estimated the average dating man to spend 12000$ a year on dates.

I can get 1200 blowjob from prostitutes -and not some derange crackhoe either - for that. Or 6 customised high end sex dolls. Or a live in prostitute BDSM sexslave for 3 months.

And, yes, thats all legal and advertised here in germany.

People are too comfortable talking about the money another person has.

That's boring.

what's all that non-commital sex do to you though?

Conquering someone is the fun part.

Dating isn't just for sex though @Redneo

*getting off - cuz it's not sex

@Abel tell me one thing a woman can offer me that a man cant

It depends on the person

Resistance.

The true conquering happens when you don't pay your BDSM Sex Slave at the end of three months.

Haha

And unless you're gay, you can't be romantically attached to a man

This is the reason Bowsette took off.

Swear on me mum

Swear on all yer mums

it's not men's fault they NEED to fuck

I dont believe in romantic love.

I mean, it exists

But i dont believe its a good thing

I don't believe that it can be forced, or relied on.

The chinese call it something that roughly translates to "stupid love".

I don't think it's wise to tell children they can look forward to it.

(They clearly couldn't)

So many crushed hearts.

It's great when it works

but it's absolutely devastating when it doesn't.

"Well it's always been like this" I would disagree that the situation being this bad, was ever this common.

Romantic love being hormonal and thus by design limited in time. In case of women to roughly 2 years. There is a reason why aranged marriages have a higher success rate...

I like that post.

The virginity ratio is so high it's only comparable to WW2-era rates.

People are rejecting the entire game.

Not saying you should force anyone to marry, obviously.

I am.

jk.

kind of.

It can last forever if you forever keep your space.

The super problematic thing is that we're moving more and more towards a disposable culture.

Keep 👏 your 👏 space 👏

This particular bit

Means she and that guy met up several times before she released the information she had a boyfriend.

Several times of that guy thinking something was working.

And then atom bomb.

Yeah...

She would have fucked him regardless.

😐

That's even worse.

Are you surprised by that, Scrib?

Depends.

No I'm not surprised, because it happened to me AND a friend.

But in my friend's case it was far dumber.

He gave this one girl fuckin' flowers.

Wow.

And she didn't... understand maybe that wasn't something just a friend does.

This already is a dumpster fire.

"Wait you gave her flowers"

"Yes. I know."

"How did she not fuckin get it"

"I know."

Did she really not get it tho?

This is how I pretty much learned how little credit to give women.

Even if she got it, why should she care? It's not, and never will be, her problem.

They're not evil geniuses.

They often are that dumb.

Also what is Malt on about

Another observation.

Scrib can be an insufferable asshole to everyone half the time and it doesn't matter, because we can all spar and come out better for it.

Nothing of this sort is possible for women.

Yes.

Boys can fight.

Girls will hold bitter grudges forever.

It just is a cold war for women.

Yes.