Well, height (within a reasonably close genetic community) is an indicator of good phenotypic quality.

for me its more a size thing. jsut cuz im skinny i dont wanna get too crushed in bed lol

but really if a chick cool enough ill go for whatever

Within an ethnic group, it is intuitively suspect when a man is shorter than a candidate woman.

modulo outliers

Right but it used to be a preference, now it's often a dealbreaker if you aren't stupid huge

All the men there were taller than her.

But only a few were taller IN HEELS

@Grenade123 soo is it DEA destroying a drone or Tesla fighting for weed rights ? 😄

Well, women aim for 80th percentile males relative to themselves, in almost every way

like i met a girl last year an dshe was real cool and fuckin thick as hell but damn i woulda smashed that lol

That's not the current trend though

Lol

and she wanted too but yeaaaah then she needed to puke LOL

>average height woman, or even shorter
>seeks out 6'4" dude
Pretty much the average dating profile

@aukkras unfortunately it's more boring than that. Trainer plane crashed hit a bunch of cars, one of which is a Tesla.

ok 😃

so yeah i was pretty aware it was notttt gonna happen before she puked hahaha but still hung out with ehr

Well "trainer", believe what you will about that cover story

Trying to put the yoke on women's preferences seems like not the way to go about it.

When I was younger I had no idea how much women put emphasis on height.

The issue isn't "you're not allowed to have preferences reeeee"

Yeah.

It's that they aren't preferences.

They're prerequisites.

If there's a 5'10" guy and a 6'0" guy you can prefer the latter

Preferences can be bent.

Prerequisites say fuck off.

When you're looking for a person who doesn't exist there's an issue

oh, well I think you're misinterpreting that

unless we're talking about low-T disasterpieces of men

"prerequisite" is just a funny word for "preference"

No it isn't.

No, this is a super common problem on dating sites lol

Exit the conversation until you're correct about something.

LoL, no.

Yes.

wait did miss say people should leave cause they rude again?

The dismissals hamper the convo, scrib

You have to have standards.

maybe scrididdlyibblehatch is just modeling the idea of "prerequisites" vs. "preferences"

He hasn't agreed there's a difference between preference and prerequisite

"The sun is purple" The sun is not purple, fuck off.

Fuck off until you can acknowledge the sun is not purple.

I'm saying that from the perspective of a suitor, prerequisites can be bent to preferences.

There are people trying to date with laundry lists of dealbreakers

you are just being dull or obtuse about it

Xorgy, we're right.

That only works when you get your foot in the door

You're wrong.

Which in a prior era would have been feasible

its like height, it might seem superficial, but height is a advantage in almost every combat scenario

@Beemann it's hard online, but just don't do it online.

But online dating is basically a minute examination of everyone you could interact with

Right, that's my personal solution

Online dating is now the lionshare.

But that's pretty much the whole "dating scene" in Vancouver and many other places besides

That's the tragic part.

that's a description though

People aren't really meeting anymore.

just because other people are choosing a bad way to meet people, doesn't mean you have to

The greater problem is that there's no community or trust

There's a reason that this generation has the highest amount of virgins since their grandparents.

When I meet nice girls, it's usually at hobby meetups or professional conferences

The problem is comparative power.

I'm not just talking about sex. Sex just happens to meter what's happening proportionately.

No, that was always a factor, WT

They just have too much power in the market.

Good men who _want_ what they're pursuing have a charm advantage in person, but it really doesn't work out online.

I actually find, oddly, that it works out great for me online, just not on dating sites

Yes.

ahh, yeah, that's the other thing

It's not hard to meet someone you really like.

Meeting them within 50 miles.

That's the crunch.

Well, right now I have an advantage there

😐

Cool beans.

since it's up in the air as to where I will be living

Rad.

Yeah I'm not opposed to moving myself

I'm not opposed to moving, my wallet is.

Tbh I think a lot of guys are like that right now

XD LOOOL THAT VID

Opportunity is not always present in your current locale

"these values and thing that im not willing to compromse"

You know, @Scribblehatch, I don't think anyone is as dismissive and mean as you here. If you think that there's something wrong with the dating scene or whatever it is that compelled you to start this thread, maybe you should look inward first.

>literally asked 1 question about values and the rest were superficial LOL

Nah.

Also

My attitude doesn't change the stats.

They're allowed to have prerequisites

Nah some guys like that. But I do agree that you're probably the least agreeable person here, Scrib

To the point where it hampers conversation

--I'm not a girl.

A lot of girls like that

9_9

Lol

Well, barring other major faults.

Dracula, there's a wooden stake in your heart. Admit it.