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Will I be expecting you at the event? I see it as you having no reason not to go. If you can't be expected to commit to things, then Patrick and Mason likely won't feel too comfortable putting their own jobs on the line for you in the hopes that you do. I can't speak for them, however. It's a general principle of respecting the works of others.