Message from @Chaveca
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if you rule with an iron fist love unconditionally and your kid will forgive you, if you use a gentle touch then you can do the emotional fuckery of "you're a disappointment" and whatnot
Do both
Effective forever
But im
Not being
Abused
What
The
Fuk
Is going on here
Hamal
Parenting provlems
Well I'm sure majority of us all had that
@ky apparently religious guilty upbring and nosy and slightly crazy moms is domestic abuse
Well
Depends
And apparently i need to go to a womens shelter
Well no
Wat
do you have another way of improving your quality of life?
Aslong as you aren't being mentally or physically
Lovely
is your current situation acceptable when you're already injured?
Im gonna enlist
Fair enough
When im no longer injured
@ky she is being abused both physically and mentally, but does not see it that way
Then i get my own place and i dont have to do what my parents say
skip to the end, getting enlisted will be easier when you heal faster and have more economic freedom
No point trying to convince them to do shit. Just simple advice is all that can be told
Pirate has an extremely hippy definition of abuse
fuck off I do
I am not being abuse
Mt parents feed me and i dont pay rent
my philosophy is with an open hand, never a closed fist
Well
All i have to do is clean the house and buy groceries sometimes
and that's why I'm pretty fucking certain you've been battered, not just disciplined