Message from @s t a i n e d g l a s s
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she doesn’t want kids
it clearly isn’t a priority
No one asked you
im not working a full time job, trying to enjoy my life with my bf, and have another full time job cleaning house and raising kids
yikes
Then quit your other job
Do what God has called you to do
not unless he and i get married
Be fruitful and multiply
and i know he can support us
Are you living together?
which it's hard to live comfortably with 1 income
not yet
it's way too soon
Well you shouldn't rush it but you are indeed running out of time
bleh
well then
now i kind of don’t want children 🤔
@Obungus im curious. how old are you to have the opinions you hold?
Older den u Muhammad
no one is older than me
Im not it was a reference
do you plan on having kids?
Yes
what if your spouse doesn’t want kids
yeah. you cant help who you fall in love with
Then they won't be my spouse
or they change their mind after marriage lol
that's usually what happens after marriage anyway. true colors come out
Then I'll wage jihad
you muslim?
No
Jihad means struggle
I will jihad against my spuse until she wants kids
I wouldn't marry a woman who didn't want kids though
lol
Idk I have other family members that could continue on our line. Hell the American branch of my family is the second largest.
Actually getting a wife doesn’t seem so appealing.
In many cases no
You have to change your plans to incorporate kids and a wife.