Message from @sleepysclmsft

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2020-02-02 09:48:27 UTC  

:)

2020-02-02 09:49:25 UTC  

Duh

2020-02-02 09:49:54 UTC  

Again, to prevent sexual harrassment, even though if you care about the nitty gritty, same sex sexual harrassment is a thing

2020-02-02 09:50:19 UTC  

But then opposite sex sexual harrassment is more commonly known

2020-02-02 09:50:28 UTC  

So people need to Ake measures for that

2020-02-02 09:50:37 UTC  

Again, culture matters

2020-02-02 09:51:04 UTC  

In South Asian societies at least, girls have more consequences to their actions than boys

2020-02-02 09:51:23 UTC  

Well, that's fucked up.

2020-02-02 09:51:23 UTC  

We're aiming to change that, but with more and more people sticking to traditions here, were a lost cause

2020-02-02 09:51:43 UTC  

So obviously we need some incentives for women here to stay safe

2020-02-02 09:51:43 UTC  

Though, it's believed that the legal system here is the opposite of that.

2020-02-02 09:51:52 UTC  

As in?

2020-02-02 09:52:10 UTC  

Harsher sentences for men who commit the same crimes.

2020-02-02 09:52:29 UTC  

Like, the segregated public transport is a reaction law to the rape cases being publicised believe it or not

2020-02-02 09:52:32 UTC  

True

2020-02-02 09:52:43 UTC  

No, legally women have less consequences too

2020-02-02 09:52:52 UTC  

I'm talking about traditionally

2020-02-02 09:53:05 UTC  

Are people really doing those bad things on *public transit*?!

2020-02-02 09:53:21 UTC  

Yes, unfortunately I'm kind of a witness

2020-02-02 09:53:46 UTC  

Idk whether it was on purpose, but once a man rubbed his crotch on my shoulder as I was sitting

2020-02-02 09:54:03 UTC  

From that time, I decided to go into less crowdy buses even if it meant waiting

2020-02-02 09:54:15 UTC  

Plus people stare

2020-02-02 09:54:18 UTC  

Like all genders

2020-02-02 09:54:19 UTC  

Doesn't that make you a victim rather than a witness?

2020-02-02 09:54:33 UTC  

I mean, idk what to say, since I could be overreacting

2020-02-02 09:54:41 UTC  

But still, it made me uncomfortable

2020-02-02 09:55:08 UTC  

Also, if girls dress western and don't cover up, people stare hard, even in big cities

2020-02-02 09:55:19 UTC  

Forget wearing western outside big cities

2020-02-02 09:55:31 UTC  

My best friend lives in a smaller city

2020-02-02 09:56:23 UTC  

And she had actual guys stopping their motorbikes, telling her to get on their bikes, for obvious reasons

2020-02-02 09:56:37 UTC  

All because she couldn't find an auto after 7 pm

2020-02-02 09:57:03 UTC  

I personally made myself more independent, taught myself to suck it up and walk if needed

2020-02-02 09:57:16 UTC  

But yes, I feel scared in general thanks to me being a girl

2020-02-02 09:58:03 UTC  

It doesn't help that dumbass colleges enforce dress codes on girls, except for the very secular universities

2020-02-02 09:58:29 UTC  

Like, thought that educational institutions should encourage being progressive

2020-02-02 09:59:12 UTC  

But no, they enforce all backward customs in the name of "holding up our culture"

2020-02-02 09:59:17 UTC  

Nah, that's just crass chauvinism

2020-02-02 09:59:21 UTC  

Fuck them

2020-02-02 09:59:31 UTC  

Again, I'm not that political

2020-02-02 09:59:50 UTC  

But these issues are real time for me, so I have to care as the clash with my ideals

2020-02-02 10:01:09 UTC  

Yeah, I don't know what to say. That's a pretty bad situation.