Message from @sleepysclmsft
Discord ID: 673806673172758558
I've been talking to guys normally on net for 2-3 years now
And very rarely have men just came on to me for sexual stuff
It's so mind-blowing to me (not anymore)
Because right now, the only part of your body I can see that isn't covered by a hijab or abaya is your font face.
That we could just have normal conversation with male strangers
And they don't fucking flirt with you
Or even be awkward around you
So fucking mind-blowing
(I don't get to talk to boys irl till I joined college, and even then I can only talk about professional stuff)
I'm bad at flirting. A woman could literally be sitting next to me, making the 👉 👌 sign, and I would have no idea what they want.
I mean, I did know a bit, I thought it was a phenomenon only for western societies
But here too, aside from all the degenerates
My only indian internet friend is a guy
@Scythe rip, but I'd be kinda same too
Or second guess myself
Well. I think the sheltering that goes on in extremely religious families is harmful in the long run. Talking to the opposite gender, having a boyfriend/girlfriend when you're young, etc, are all part of growing up.
And istg, even though we did compliment each other
Both of us got the fucking concept of boundaries
True
I am talking on this server
No one like, came on to me out of the blue that I couldn't handle
Like no one was harrassing me for it
It's almost lije
*IF YOU LET NORMAL INTERACTION BETWEEN OPPOSITE SEX HAPPEN, THEY DONT HAVE TO BE FRISKY ALL THE TIME*
Ffs
101 reasons I wanna move out
Well, good luck with that, then. Living with family can be hard.
Yep don't worry
I guess I have a lot on my mind
I mean, I have it all the time
I just can't express it IRL cause everyone else is okay with these rules
Or if they're not, they try to be okay with them for the sake of expectations from their society
Worst part, none of my actual friends, not even IRL anymore, have to still be so idk suppressed
And I'm low key jealous of them
But Imma break out of this system and move out, find my own path or burn it down for myself
Till then I can just plot for the destruction
Burn it down and build yourself a house in the ashes?
No
Burn it down and leave
The people have already drained the good in it