That's fine. People want to be carefree, and have fun when they go out. When you are silly women let there guard down, and you can learn a lot about them without asking them directly.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3C_5bsdQWg

Oh also @Big T I should have clarified, I'm trying to move later this year. My buddy is getting ready to have his 3rd kid and I kinda want to be there to help them. I was thinking of starting going to church in that area when I move.

@Tromb2ch2 Andreas is right

You cant just go hard into that

why would you want to be abstinent as well?

Oh mostly because I want to make sure I know these women because I want to be married. I tend to dive dick first into terrible relationships

And I wasnt technically going into political with this girl in this instance, it was an explanation of something that stupid people would think is racist. Her response made me believe it.

You cant be that autistic about it tho. You can feel out someone's politics indirectly.

Why do you have a habit of falling into bad relationships?

Oh that's like idk 65% at minimum my fault

Probably more like 100% though.

Ok, well I'm going to sleep. Good talking to you guys.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SrmTPs9iLWA

Mostly thinking negatively about myself. And settling on whatever comes my way

@Andreas Grey goodnight man ttyl

So you get into a relationship with the first girl that says yes.

Treat it like an interview. You have standards.

Yeah which is why I was debating doing the abstinence thing... but sex is nice

But basically trying to not dive in to give my brain more of a chance to catch up

dont buy into hookup culture it destroys normal healthy people on a mass scale.

Ignore @Tony_Swann.
@Tromb2ch2 you just gotta get out there and remember to not fall head first for the first girl.

Obviously easier said than done, but with practice itll happen.

Keep in mind the various standards you have. Dont get into something serious if she doesnt meet those standards

The biggest one I'm having troubles with is women not wanting to have kids...

How old are the women?

Some as old as 30

Realistically, how many girls have told you that?

That they dont want kids?

Maybe 20?

Well 20 down, millions more left.

You just can't get discouraged.

Dating is a numbers game.

Yeah I realize that, I'm just having that nagging at the back of my head telling me I'm running out of time

Running out of time? How old are you?

32

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2AIAX8-CqQ

Well use that as motivation to talk to more chicks

Take full advantage of the day game

Aka when you're out doing stuf during the daytime

Daygame