Right.

FYF

If you're interested you're just friendzoning yourself

Fuck your Friendship

Also if you're getting legit flip flopping bail out

Lol. So just go grab her by the p-ssy. Show her who’s boss.

The hardest part guys have to learn when doing this is, forget everything you know about making friends

lol

Lol

They'll let you do it

You can get away with it all

Sometimes we just can't help ourselves and start kissing them

Lol.

And either way keep on with the self improvement

You'll feel more satisfied no matter which way the dating life goes and you'll be a more interesting person to interact with

^A good measurement to go by with this is, when you find yourself with more energy you know your life is improving

True that. I need to exercise again.

vs. being a fatass sitting all day, getting energy from mountain dew and shit

Hey! ....you're right 😦

😆 been there, overcame that 😉

dropped 15 pounds, felt like i could take dudes twice my weight

Even beyond physical fitness tho

I’ve done it once. Now I’m out of shape. I’m not too overweight, but I could lose about 10 pounds.

My torso is bigger than my arms and it used to be the other way around. I miss that. I want that back

Start with small steps or you'll just go back to old habits

Dang. I was never like that. Just really lean.

Just like, pick something you've always wanted to do and give it a shot

Learn a skill, take up a sport, go to a place (budget allowing)

@SteelandSouls it helps to have local buddies to keep you motivated. shit will not even be work at that point

I had to do my shit solo lol

You'll have a good time, you won't "maybe I shoulda" and you'll have more stuff to talk about

Used too spend too much time playing vidya, sort of played guitar- not much to discuss. Picked up one new hobby that wasn't super common and it's become an easy thing to fall back on in conversation in general

And shitposting improves. When self loathing decreases you'll be focused and overall better (and more energy means bullet fast replies to them)

👌

I’m inspired again. Rar.

What's one hobby or skill you've kinda always wanted but never bothered with for one reason or another my dude?

Piano. Pick my trombone back up. Get in shape. Backpack more. Read more classics. Tinker with stuff.

Pick one of the two instruments, read, backpack and get in shape can be merged

Tinkering is forever

Yes.

But don't heap it all on at once