Yo, if you love her, you can just get used to weird shit, I guess.

Wow, fuck.

I'm sorry that happened to you.

Idk, I met a girl who got along with em great. Attractive, sane, physically active, seemed really together. Finally after a few dates I'm making moves and she tells me she has herpes after being raped at 15

Like do I just accept that I could possibly get herpes and keep going

How's that for weird shit

My former brother in law was forced by the state of CA to pay child support on a kid that wasn't his. DNA test came out after the first judgement, so he had to pay until the lil' bastard was 18.

I'd suggest that he might have grounds to appeal but it's CA so he's probably SOL.

Herpes? Well, I dunno; that seems like a pretty good shit test.

That kid is, like, 26 now

My sister is remarried with two children from a guy who is not an idiot now.

My buddy paid child support for 4 years before he found out she had been cheating on him. Test came back and it wasn't his and he told the state to f*** off and just left

That's what I would do.

That's a tough call, grawrant. Sounds like the kind of think you have to answer for yourself based on how you feel about this woman.

If it's meant to be, it will happen. Have faith life will happen as it's supposed to without having to force anything.

It feels like when looking at Family Court, the amount of raw Thottery and lies that occur would blackpill any man.

So I'll patiently wait for things to work out for me

Think of it like this: if you really loved a woman, would you risk losing her for a managable disease they may cure in the next ten years? @grawrant

@Old Man Hound I know a girl out here who lost custody and has to pay child support

Yeah?

Both work and are capable parents, but he makes more working a lot less days

Neither do drugs or anything, she just works shit jobs and shit hours, and he had a better lawyer

Unexpected!

Now they take child support straight from her checks

My buddy also took custody of his kid from the mother

But she was neglectful, as he had multiple trips to ER under her care for different accidents

That was cut and dry, but I footed the lawyer bill for him

"Accidents"

A kid "fell down the stairs" and broke his collarbone at my kid's school.

Wow

I call that bitch out every time I see her. "Make sure no one falls down the stairs today."

Well one he was fucking around in the kitchen and spilled cooking food on himself. Where was she? Smoking a cigarette outside

Smoking a joint, more likely.

Yup

What's funny is

She's white

And he's black

And HE got custody from HER

😂

I was best man at an inter racial marriage; White Nationalism will never work.

My blonde haired, blue eyed mother doesn't count as "white" to these retards because Slavic.