Well, I would probably move there to be a roughneck, but the wife and kids...

It's best to move out here when you already have a wife and kid, cuz if you don't already you are not going to find one

30 years old and pretty sure I'm not getting married at this point

The women that aren't whales already have multiple childeren. And the ones who are actually attractive are 18/19

And if they don't have kids by 20 they usually have serious personality flaws

She's gainfully employed by the state, and loves her job. Just marry a young one. I did. No one cares.

Yeah I've been sticking with the young ones unfortunately

Got me in trouble a few years back, took an 18year old Christian's virginity before I dumped her. Caught a false rape allegation that took a year to get thrown out.

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What's fucked up I'd ingot arrested AFTER two of her friends gave wittness statements that she made it up

The SANE reported her as being full of shit

And they still came and arrested me

Well, don't fuck 'em if you don't plan to marry them, I guess.

Lost my job, my house

2017 was horrible for me

And all I got was a lawsuit against her. I got a judgment she will never be able to pay off and she ran away to New York so I can't keep filing to garnish her wages at every new job

Chet what if we wait for marriage and then I find out she's into feet or something

Gotta try before you buy

I knew a Sgt in the USMC that had a 3-some with his wife and her best friend. The wife was jealous that he gave the friend too much attention and reported him to the MPs for rape. When the friend was informed that she had been raped, she testified that she was NOT raped, and that it was fully consensual; he was charged with adultery, sentenced to 6 mo in the brig, and knocked down to private.

Wow

Yeah when I finally made bail, no one would hire me with a pending felony. Guy who finally did told me it was because he did 4years in prison before the girls own mother recorded her admitting she made it all up

Yo, if you love her, you can just get used to weird shit, I guess.

Wow, fuck.

I'm sorry that happened to you.

Idk, I met a girl who got along with em great. Attractive, sane, physically active, seemed really together. Finally after a few dates I'm making moves and she tells me she has herpes after being raped at 15

Like do I just accept that I could possibly get herpes and keep going

How's that for weird shit

My former brother in law was forced by the state of CA to pay child support on a kid that wasn't his. DNA test came out after the first judgement, so he had to pay until the lil' bastard was 18.

I'd suggest that he might have grounds to appeal but it's CA so he's probably SOL.

Herpes? Well, I dunno; that seems like a pretty good shit test.

That kid is, like, 26 now

My sister is remarried with two children from a guy who is not an idiot now.

My buddy paid child support for 4 years before he found out she had been cheating on him. Test came back and it wasn't his and he told the state to f*** off and just left

That's what I would do.

That's a tough call, grawrant. Sounds like the kind of think you have to answer for yourself based on how you feel about this woman.

If it's meant to be, it will happen. Have faith life will happen as it's supposed to without having to force anything.

It feels like when looking at Family Court, the amount of raw Thottery and lies that occur would blackpill any man.

So I'll patiently wait for things to work out for me

Think of it like this: if you really loved a woman, would you risk losing her for a managable disease they may cure in the next ten years? @grawrant

@Old Man Hound I know a girl out here who lost custody and has to pay child support