But still

Problem is when you say something, she'll brag "ur calling me fat? I have no duty to stay in shape for you and yadda yadda"

Diabetes man

Aint a joke

True as fuck

Not hard to get one nowadays

Had the same issue

Literally need to just go full man mode and take insane control of what comes into my house

Food wise

Meal prep myself top to bottom, buy exclusively the food I need for that, really lock down my fitness diet etc

My ex was obese. Not like "shit I cant walk"

That sucks

My wife was fit when we got married, typical bullshit ik but while I stayed in shape she decided not to

@Bodark Actual good shit. I need to learn how to cook

But if I lock the fuck down on all the food that comes in she literally won't have any options

Eat healthy or starve. Look. I'm doing it.

Or do like monks in medieval times and build a door like that

It worked

Only problem with that is that now I'm her parent

Lmaaaoo

That sucks, but nothing you cant handle right?

Could I? Yes. Do I want to feel like I'm the only adult in the house? Not really

But then again I pretty much am already

I know that feel. I really do

So I guess denying it ain't gonna do shit for me and I might as well make it work in my favor

Like "imma marry so I have someone to take care of me and I can take care of her as well"

But at end you take care of her and thats it

Have any kids?

Nope

It'll be easier then

I'm Christian. Got married because she was (still is, tbh) a dope person and she was very attractive. Also that was my only access to pussy so we fuckin done did it. I really love her, enjoy spending time with her etc but when I look at her appearance I am not enthused

And I'm unhappy with her inability to own her shit

That's it

Again not trying to pointlessly bitch here

Idk. I'm going to try the meal prep thing, worst case I become a fucking health god

Which sounds incredible

So fuck it

Sounds like a good plan

Update: so we went to the grocery and I bought like $200 of raw unprocessed ingredients, had mashed potatoes, grilled chicken breast, and marsala mushroom sauce for dinner

There ain't shit for unhealthy food in my house anymore

Bought her Tupperware to put premake food in