so he was observing a pair bonder in action

Probably a part of it, yes

The sexual selection of human beings has been so heavily diluted that there's no real set style anymore

So it's almost random at this point

Rather incompatible with browsing Tinder for 4 hours though, no?

Nah

Tinder is just a thing that people use to find mates

You mean the style of selection is random, or the selection itself?

the style

Society is changing

the way humans select for each other

the gene pools been so heavily mixed in most developed nations that humans interact in increasingly strange social patterns

I'm pretty sure it selects for increasingly feminine qualities though, in both sexes

because society requires you to be less antisocial for it to function

which is an overwhelmingly male majority quality

at the moment its kind of a free-for-all though

Well the selection process might have that element of randomness to it, but overall promiscuity is going up

The chlamydia circle is expanding, as my friend would say 😄

Which is interesting because it means it's not actually pair bonding

Which only has high instances of female infidelity

i didnt say it was only pair bonding

i said it was both

both styles are currently mixed together in the population

I don't think it has anything to do with pair bonding actually

nah it does

because tournament beats pair bonding

female promiscuity persists in either style

a woman can still cheat within a relationship that lasts for life

No it does not

There is no cheating in a tournament style

Or, well, depends on how you view it I guess 😄

But the male does not invest, so female promiscuity doesn't really make sense a term there

its female prosmiscuity because she's taking on multiple mates

which happens in tournament style

Not the same behaviour

yea it is

thats all prosmiscuity is about

Mating with different males each mating season is not the same as leaving your offspring in the care of the father so you can mate again

No, because the children are raised to self sufficiency

>implying the pair bonder would leave

they wouldnt leave dummy