Message from Eulogy in tradworker #tradworker
At first I kind of forced it but then I started having fun with it
Then I just started fitting in everywhere.
You can't let yourself be the victim socially. Ever.
With the jocks, with the nerds, with the sluts, etc.
@Eulogy You have to achieve this nirvana of "not giving a fuck", you can't force it.
That comes after
You have to force yourself into the position
I used to give a fuck, it was terrible.
All you have to do is stand up for your beliefs and they will leave you alone.
How do you start riding a bicycle
you have to give yourself the initial push
the same thing for social interactions, you have to force yourself out there.
That's the thing. I stand for my beliefs and EVERYONE leaves me alone lol
and think of it like this, youre in high school - how many people are gonna see you again?
after you graduate
It just hit me out of the blue after a lot of personal shit, all my other problems seemed so miniscule I stopped giving absolutely any fuck in school and those were my best years. Even got arrested once and laughed my way to the station.
8 people in my graduating class are in prison and 2 are dead.
almost been 10 years since I graduated.
I don't talk to any of em either
What are some "I don't give a fuck" actions one can partake in at school lmfao
Some black kid on the Football team was throwing balls at my helmet so I grabbed him by the facemask and pulled then tripped him over. Then he got up,tried to tackle me on my waste so I just wrapped my arm around his neck, Span around on his back and put him in a choke hold and wrapped my legs around him.
laughing at your own jokes
making things funny just for you
Never bothered me again.
Eagle, build self confidence by joining a couple clubs and honing in on skills you are good at or build up skills
I got yelled at by some dumb bitch when I took a cooking class because I told her to make me a sandwich thats what she should be doing
and it caused a huge scene but I laughed it off
I did baseball, but the coach let the wetbacks play first and I didn't ever get to play an actual game last year
and then other people heard about it and some high fived me
I did speech and debate for 4 years to build my confidence. Public speaking used to scare the shit out of me and now I can talk to a crowd of 100 people without any anxiety
I was in high school that "guy everyone liked"
Don't restrict yourself to a certain group
Do confidence building activities
I scared the shit out of some fat nigger too a week before halloween and everyone laughed about it
I have mild to moderate Social Anxiety so I take medication.
it doesnt have to be an all at once process but you have to kick yourself into gear.
also you dont have to use "trad" humor, you can say some potty jokes too.
its high school
Lifting is def the best therapy.