Message from Eulogy in tradworker #tradworker


2017-11-22 01:25:57 UTC  

At first I kind of forced it but then I started having fun with it

2017-11-22 01:26:05 UTC  

Then I just started fitting in everywhere.

2017-11-22 01:26:13 UTC  

You can't let yourself be the victim socially. Ever.

2017-11-22 01:26:13 UTC  

With the jocks, with the nerds, with the sluts, etc.

2017-11-22 01:26:18 UTC  

@Eulogy You have to achieve this nirvana of "not giving a fuck", you can't force it.

2017-11-22 01:26:31 UTC  

That comes after

2017-11-22 01:26:32 UTC  

Facts, Wombat.

2017-11-22 01:26:36 UTC  

You have to force yourself into the position

2017-11-22 01:26:37 UTC  

I used to give a fuck, it was terrible.

2017-11-22 01:26:39 UTC  

Never again.

2017-11-22 01:26:46 UTC  

All you have to do is stand up for your beliefs and they will leave you alone.

2017-11-22 01:26:48 UTC  

How do you start riding a bicycle

2017-11-22 01:26:54 UTC  

you have to give yourself the initial push

2017-11-22 01:27:06 UTC  

the same thing for social interactions, you have to force yourself out there.

2017-11-22 01:27:13 UTC  

That's the thing. I stand for my beliefs and EVERYONE leaves me alone lol

2017-11-22 01:27:20 UTC  

and think of it like this, youre in high school - how many people are gonna see you again?

2017-11-22 01:27:22 UTC  

after you graduate

2017-11-22 01:27:27 UTC  

It just hit me out of the blue after a lot of personal shit, all my other problems seemed so miniscule I stopped giving absolutely any fuck in school and those were my best years. Even got arrested once and laughed my way to the station.

2017-11-22 01:27:37 UTC  

8 people in my graduating class are in prison and 2 are dead.

2017-11-22 01:27:52 UTC  

almost been 10 years since I graduated.

2017-11-22 01:28:11 UTC  

I don't talk to any of em either

2017-11-22 01:28:11 UTC  

What are some "I don't give a fuck" actions one can partake in at school lmfao

2017-11-22 01:28:18 UTC  

Some black kid on the Football team was throwing balls at my helmet so I grabbed him by the facemask and pulled then tripped him over. Then he got up,tried to tackle me on my waste so I just wrapped my arm around his neck, Span around on his back and put him in a choke hold and wrapped my legs around him.

2017-11-22 01:28:19 UTC  

laughing at your own jokes

2017-11-22 01:28:25 UTC  

making things funny just for you

2017-11-22 01:28:26 UTC  

Never bothered me again.

2017-11-22 01:29:15 UTC  

Eagle, build self confidence by joining a couple clubs and honing in on skills you are good at or build up skills

2017-11-22 01:29:17 UTC  

I got yelled at by some dumb bitch when I took a cooking class because I told her to make me a sandwich thats what she should be doing

2017-11-22 01:29:23 UTC  

and it caused a huge scene but I laughed it off

2017-11-22 01:29:23 UTC  

I did baseball, but the coach let the wetbacks play first and I didn't ever get to play an actual game last year

2017-11-22 01:29:29 UTC  

and then other people heard about it and some high fived me

2017-11-22 01:29:58 UTC  

I did speech and debate for 4 years to build my confidence. Public speaking used to scare the shit out of me and now I can talk to a crowd of 100 people without any anxiety

2017-11-22 01:30:00 UTC  

I was in high school that "guy everyone liked"

2017-11-22 01:30:11 UTC  

Don't restrict yourself to a certain group

2017-11-22 01:30:22 UTC  

Do confidence building activities

2017-11-22 01:30:27 UTC  

I scared the shit out of some fat nigger too a week before halloween and everyone laughed about it

2017-11-22 01:30:28 UTC  

I have mild to moderate Social Anxiety so I take medication.

2017-11-22 01:31:11 UTC  

it doesnt have to be an all at once process but you have to kick yourself into gear.

2017-11-22 01:31:28 UTC  

also you dont have to use "trad" humor, you can say some potty jokes too.

2017-11-22 01:31:30 UTC  

its high school

2017-11-22 01:31:41 UTC  

Lifting is def the best therapy.