Message from @Eulogy
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Explain
The crazy microcosm that is known as the American High School is crazy.
Even as one of the only metal/scene/alt guys I had a clique.
Make the best of it. Join a club or two and hone in on some skill. Have fun.
When I was a freshman-sophmore I was bullied and made fun of, then my junior and senior year I just started having fun with everything, I would joke about people or I would try to be outspoken and just be positive.
At first I kind of forced it but then I started having fun with it
Then I just started fitting in everywhere.
You can't let yourself be the victim socially. Ever.
With the jocks, with the nerds, with the sluts, etc.
@Eulogy You have to achieve this nirvana of "not giving a fuck", you can't force it.
That comes after
Facts, Wombat.
You have to force yourself into the position
I used to give a fuck, it was terrible.
Never again.
All you have to do is stand up for your beliefs and they will leave you alone.
How do you start riding a bicycle
you have to give yourself the initial push
the same thing for social interactions, you have to force yourself out there.
That's the thing. I stand for my beliefs and EVERYONE leaves me alone lol
after you graduate
It just hit me out of the blue after a lot of personal shit, all my other problems seemed so miniscule I stopped giving absolutely any fuck in school and those were my best years. Even got arrested once and laughed my way to the station.
8 people in my graduating class are in prison and 2 are dead.
almost been 10 years since I graduated.
I don't talk to any of em either
What are some "I don't give a fuck" actions one can partake in at school lmfao
Some black kid on the Football team was throwing balls at my helmet so I grabbed him by the facemask and pulled then tripped him over. Then he got up,tried to tackle me on my waste so I just wrapped my arm around his neck, Span around on his back and put him in a choke hold and wrapped my legs around him.
laughing at your own jokes
making things funny just for you
Never bothered me again.
Eagle, build self confidence by joining a couple clubs and honing in on skills you are good at or build up skills
I got yelled at by some dumb bitch when I took a cooking class because I told her to make me a sandwich thats what she should be doing
and it caused a huge scene but I laughed it off
I did baseball, but the coach let the wetbacks play first and I didn't ever get to play an actual game last year
and then other people heard about it and some high fived me
I did speech and debate for 4 years to build my confidence. Public speaking used to scare the shit out of me and now I can talk to a crowd of 100 people without any anxiety
I was in high school that "guy everyone liked"
Don't restrict yourself to a certain group
Do confidence building activities
I scared the shit out of some fat nigger too a week before halloween and everyone laughed about it