Message from @Bodark Actual

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2019-08-29 13:20:27 UTC  

Two: Feel it out. Make conversation with her. Don't be awkward. Sit down with her somewhere sometime, you mentioned the library at school- say you've seen her in there a few times and ask if she wouldn't mind you studying with her. Be confident. Smile naturally. Ask her questions. Engage with her fully in the moment. How she reacts to this will give you information.

2019-08-29 13:21:34 UTC  

If it goes well, when you're done studying and talking be all "Hey, really dig hanging out with you. I was thinking I'd love to grab dinner with you tonight, get to know you better. Sound good?"

2019-08-29 13:23:04 UTC  

If she says no, "Cool, no worries. Thanks for the time today." And move on. Find another girl to talk to that you're interested in.

2019-08-29 13:23:27 UTC  

If she says yes tell her you'll pick her up and ask what time and where.

2019-08-29 13:25:41 UTC  

If you're unsure about what to talk or if there's a lull in conversation that's becoming awkward
Use the FORD method
Family
Occupation
Recreation
Desires


Ask about family
Ask about her job/ school classes
Ask about hobbies or what she enjoys
Ask about her goals and what she wants



Trust me if nothing else it's a way to break awkward silences and it works nearly everytime

2019-08-29 13:26:21 UTC  

Yep

2019-08-29 13:26:25 UTC  

Ask questions

2019-08-29 13:26:39 UTC  

Be engaged and confident in the moment.

2019-08-29 13:27:36 UTC  

I went out with my last girlfriend after 1 conversation in a large group of people. Got her number after having a brief Facebook convo with her. Went out 2 days later.

2019-08-29 13:27:40 UTC  

We are married now

2019-08-29 13:27:44 UTC  

Shit works

2019-08-29 16:08:14 UTC  

These are some prrrrretty good tips

2019-08-29 16:10:15 UTC  

I have successfully played the dating game and found a suitable life partner and have maintained that relationship well

2019-08-29 16:10:53 UTC  

Good

2019-08-29 16:10:58 UTC  

Can't say the same

2019-08-29 16:11:04 UTC  

Well, wish me luck then

2019-08-29 16:11:11 UTC  

Cause I'm in need of it

2019-08-29 16:11:17 UTC  

Glhf

2019-08-29 16:11:28 UTC  

If she rejects it nbd

2019-08-29 16:11:36 UTC  

Don't put too much pressure

2019-08-29 16:11:43 UTC  

There's always way more girls

2019-08-30 00:06:51 UTC  

Yeah I couldn't

2019-08-30 00:07:11 UTC  

Fuck me

2019-08-30 00:09:35 UTC  

Come on lad dont beat yourself

2019-08-30 00:14:12 UTC  

Hey dude it happens, Don't over think shit. Try again

2019-08-30 00:14:30 UTC  

time to go full doomer bud

2019-08-30 00:14:47 UTC  

@Rogal Dorn The Autistic go fortify something

2019-08-30 00:17:04 UTC  

Lol

2019-08-30 00:21:05 UTC  

no u sgt pussyanus

2019-08-30 00:23:38 UTC  

Im the pussy here

2019-08-30 00:28:32 UTC  

nah not u i was talkin to merc

2019-08-30 00:32:19 UTC  

his real name is sgt pussyanus

2019-08-30 00:35:36 UTC  

But im a pussy

2019-08-30 00:35:46 UTC  

Im a coward

2019-08-30 00:37:17 UTC  

No just suck it up and try again

2019-08-30 00:43:15 UTC  

^

2019-08-30 00:44:54 UTC  

Once more with feeling

2019-08-30 01:14:42 UTC  

**^**

2019-08-30 01:26:45 UTC  

Idk

2019-08-30 01:26:48 UTC  

I get nervous

2019-08-30 01:26:56 UTC  

Just it