Message from @Deadbeat Radio
Discord ID: 663913355748179988
What’s you fight abt
Yeah. Why fight?
You good there Deadbeat?
@Deadbeat Radio I feel that all too hard.
You're bothered, and you can't be unbothered unless you push the burden - but to push it means to bring it up and attention back to it - and it's togh because, to do that involves the risk of it rolling back on you
but to not do it. . . means to carry it until you do
( I'm being stupid and vague - but - if I'm understanding your stance rn - you got an F from me, bud )
@INNYGMATYK basically this.
@Deadbeat Radio I feel you dude.
To ""let it slide"" is self compromising surrender that'll bother you until you get closure.
To ""bring it up"" may result in that closure, but it also risks the hornet's nest ( again ).
I wish I had advice - I'd say ""fuck it - move the block - bite the bees""
But I've all too often sat with that weight - ""waiting for the right time to bring it up""
I mean if you cant push past it, pull that pin. But maybe ease into it so its more like a firecracker than a MOAB
Well so far it's been like 2 nukes going off. Truth is I just feel like a shit lately, then she says I dont love her enough. Which in turn makes me feel worse and it just keeps cycling. All I want to do is be left alone to heal. I dont even want to look at her or talk to her since the last two fights. Which has taken its toll on my motivation, which I know I'd feel better once I get back into my normal routine.
@Deadbeat Radio I feel you man. Maybe explain that you need like a little you time, and set like a date night for the bear future
Fuck, I feel that. . .
@thedarkness05 whenever I tell her I need time to be alone she, she thinks I'm cheating or that I'm losing interest in her. Which is untrue. Then of course comes the tears and to be honest, maybe I'm just too cold but it doesn't effect me, it annoys me. When she starts wailing and crying it just annoys me.
I live her and hate to see her cry but damn women dont understand when a man hurts he hurts, it's not always about you you know?
I feel that. The waterworks dont move me either. Idk how to help all that much king. She needs to let you do your thing every once an awhile. If you spend all your time together you'll smother each other
Same man, tears dont do anything for me.
I just tell my wife it's not doing anything for her and her bad day isnt going to make my day bad.
@Deadbeat Radio hey bud, That's no bueno. In a way it's manipulative. Shit might go further down hill
Probably feels of many kings here
Thanks yall. Normally I could quash this shit, but I've been in a weakened state for a while and it's hard to fix your relationship when you need repairs yourself. Any so far so good.
@Deadbeat Radio hey homie, I'm getting logistics set up. You available?
i feel you king
been losing my mind over the past 3-4 days over similar situation
It's honestly what brought my past relationship to a head.
Things boiled over weird - and I'm oddly cool with my ex right now.
But to get through that shit, pretty much cost the situation - and I have no *good* advice.
Except ;
Take care of **yourself**.
@INNYGMATYK well I'm glad it ended up ok in the end for you man. And as a side she gave me my space how I wanted when she cooled down and talked to her friend about how she felt. She was under the impression that it was just me and her that could only work out problems, but as I pointed out, whenever I have problems I go to my friends for advise. It's what we do. We are tribal at the end if the day. I went through this head on and gave her advise so everything is good right now. Even got back in my groove. Thanks for listening kings, just thought I'd give a status update.
@Kaptain bonez what's your situation?
@Deadbeat Radio bueno
@mcguyver123 thanks for your advise too random stanger
@mcguyver123 sorry I havnt been on chat and shit, this weekend took a nose dive so hard man. Got my mile in though!
@Deadbeat Radio hell yea man - that's what this channel is for - glad it panned out
@INNYGMATYK I'm glad I found this discord. (Song plays in the distance)
*YOU DONT HAVE TO BE LONELY, AT /K/OMMANDOS ONLY DOT COM*
*socks mandatory
shit got kinda outta hand, essentially she kinda broke today after realizing something
imagine this
she told someone she thinks i'm only here because she supports me right?
***tfw she's being supported by my parents asking them for money***
@mcguyver123 socks or it's gay