imo social anxiety is annoying

Yeah dude. I wasnt always like this

not having social anxiety, I mean dealing with folks that have it

Ah

Aha

You don't have to deal with them.

Me, running from the gay shit you posting in here

unfortunately I have family that have it

Ahah

so I kinda do, but I'm always unsuccessful

I'm not sure what to say... It just sucks

people that can't even order pizza over the phone and talk to whoever is on the other end of the line, like wtf

Me, running from the gay shit y’all posting in here

When someone is stuck in a negative feedback loop, it's difficult to escape

https://youtu.be/uzqh9aRjSl8

like a mental negative feedback loop?

For example, someone who is supposed to raise you with love instead tells you how much of a failure you are and plants seeds of worry in your mind

Over a long enough period of time you begin to become acquainted with that

@mister lol nigga this shit still affects my relationships

And you adopt those oppressive behaviors and user them on yourself

I don't think most people's parents mean them well.

@Lucipher you're probably right in a sense...

Luuuucy

It’s

A story

Omg

Lucy

@mister parents grow to see their children as competition.

If you make mistakes and don't recognize that they are necessary for development, or you are told that these mistakes are a flaw, you will believe it.. until you begin to recognize the patterns of abuse

intergenerational warfare is fairly observable.

But even becoming aware of it is only the first step

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