it's usually just everybody wants to be the victim

Only sith deal in absolutes...

And I mean abusive relationships are very abusive, but it's not exactly healthy either to carry it over to other relationships.

id rather be nice and be friendzoned by a nice girl than be an arsehole and get a inconsidatate girl with a bad personality

Can create for much toxicity

okay hold up let me tell my fuckin story and then all of you can add your ideas and statements after

Alrighty~

It's far more common among feminist females. Anti-feminist females tend to be much more reasonable and clear headed.

kk

About men that is.

that's just the thing, being nice doesn't get you nice girls either lol

gotta find out whos nice

Luckily for me I can be the nice girl that will go after the nice guys.

^

quiet ones , the ones that arent popular

they are differant than the normal bitchy girls

If you're quiet as a guy you're either seen as a beta male or as dark and brooding

depending on your looks

I used to be beta male now I'm dark and brooding

since packing on about 40 lbs of muscle

Girls are pretty damn shallow tbh

i dont know what people think about me . i just dont nessisarily care

anyway so me and this girl talk in class a lot, i make her laugh and she does the same for me right. I'm also really fuckin mean to other people. I tease them hard and shit which makes her laugh and sometimes i even tease her. Nothing too fucking hard like "go kill yourself" plus im not cancer edgy like that. anyway i hit this girl up and we start talking. we talk all night (9 pm to 3 am) and we text the entire weekend leading into all nighters (im cont.)

I was awkward as a teen.

on a side note i'm not quiet at all. literal definition of a "bad kid" aka does drugs, gets thrown, out and says whatever is on my mind to anyone

ask her out on a date?

and she relativly popular but not the bitchy kind

then you'll have your answer

Generalizations won't help in a given situation. The only thing you can do is just go for it and see what happens.

the longer you wait the higher the risk she'll say no

Your likelihood of being friend zoned goes up exponentially with time.

yeah i know, but i'm on break and shit right now, we told eachother our plans for the break and we arent doing anything

I mean you'll be the guy she'll bitch to about the asshole that's banigng her

so do i just hit her up and ask to hang out?

or is that a bad thing to do

do it

@Trinity is your profile pic kaiki deishu?

No that's a good thing, Brenden.

yes lol

ask to hang out

Try doing that, that's what you should do.