Message from @fiend

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2016-11-22 21:36:17 UTC  

most people use black/blue pens tho

2016-11-22 21:36:21 UTC  

so it makes sense to use red

2016-11-22 21:36:22 UTC  

I don't know about any of their opinions

2016-11-22 21:36:39 UTC  

I mean if they used green, they'd still be correcting your work

2016-11-22 21:36:48 UTC  

I mean, Yea, It's true, The Human Mind associates Red with Negative Things

2016-11-22 21:36:57 UTC  

It's not even that i'm gonna miss red ink or something gay like that but it's the principle that they're treating us like children

2016-11-22 21:36:59 UTC  

But it causes no distractions

2016-11-22 21:37:16 UTC  

Real transgenders, those that actually have medically diagnosable gender dysphoria and no those that just want oppression points for attention, do not want to be singled out with fake pronouns or be referred to exclusively with they/them. That's Tumblr BS.
Real ones want to be seen exclusively as their identified gender as they stand without being some blending of the two. And yes there's only two.

2016-11-22 21:37:44 UTC  

I've seen a Transgender before

2016-11-22 21:37:49 UTC  

a Real one

2016-11-22 21:37:54 UTC  

lol

2016-11-22 21:37:54 UTC  

Looked just like a woman

2016-11-22 21:37:59 UTC  

Blaire White pointed out what makes the fake ones.

2016-11-22 21:38:05 UTC  

How would you know it's a transgender then?

2016-11-22 21:38:08 UTC  

Usually a good sign is how they like to call attention to it.

2016-11-22 21:38:09 UTC  

I mean if they pass

2016-11-22 21:38:11 UTC  

you don't know

2016-11-22 21:38:31 UTC  

unless you try to grab them by the pussy I guess

2016-11-22 21:38:36 UTC  

What does it matter if everyone knows if they're trans?

2016-11-22 21:38:45 UTC  

Fake Ones just look like overweight ladies

2016-11-22 21:38:49 UTC  

I also love the oversight Tumblr uses in regards to the cis/trans issue.

2016-11-22 21:39:55 UTC  

But before I continue there, may I ask what part of the transition you feel you're in, Emma?

2016-11-22 21:40:34 UTC  

Thing is, I hate people who beg for attention, and they use 1st world problems as their way to get attention

2016-11-22 21:41:03 UTC  

and that affects me as I have small problems that I hate talking to my friends about as I feel it makes me seem like an attention whore

2016-11-22 21:41:04 UTC  

I find it kind of ironic when LGBT people complain about how evil white people are, when they have no rights in any other society

2016-11-22 21:41:07 UTC  

Well there are steps along the way. The first part is accepting who you are. I've done that. After that is seeking professional diagnosis. I've done that. Either before or after that is letting friends and family in on it and I've partially done that and plan on telling my parents.... well... tomorrow. Just before Thanksgiving.

2016-11-22 21:41:18 UTC  

I want them to know before I actually start HRT.

2016-11-22 21:41:29 UTC  

If I wait until after they'll resent that I hid that.

2016-11-22 21:43:17 UTC  

Tumblr is a sess pool of bad ideas

2016-11-22 21:44:04 UTC  

Fair enough, and I'm not asking to judge your plan of action. I'm just curious if the way I view the endgame of the transition makes sense to you as someone who's actively transitioning.

2016-11-22 21:44:04 UTC  

That's because it has an echochamber mentality.

2016-11-22 21:44:18 UTC  

Echochambers have a way of drowning out good ideas and encouraging bad ones.

2016-11-22 21:44:43 UTC  

End game is to be seen completely female with strangers not having anything to even hint that it was ever anything different.

2016-11-22 21:45:09 UTC  

The voice is ambiguous enough that if I pass visually no one is going to think twice about it.

2016-11-22 21:46:41 UTC  

Gotcha. Would I be twisting any words or ideas if I simplified what you expressed to being seamlessly cisgender/cissexual?

2016-11-22 21:47:13 UTC  

That's what I want the typical stranger to think at first glance.

2016-11-22 21:48:02 UTC  

It would be like that one Scene in South Park

2016-11-22 21:48:06 UTC  

Right now, absolutely no one is even slightly hesitating with the "sirs" despite pink clothes and nail polish and various jewelry. And I don't really have that masculine of a face.

2016-11-22 21:48:24 UTC  

I think it's the facial hair. It grows lightning fast and even clean shaving it leaves enough of an impact for people to tell.

2016-11-22 21:48:34 UTC  

PC Principal: Who is in charge of the paper!! I will break his legs!!!!!!

2016-11-22 21:48:47 UTC  

Ever try waxing that shit fam?