everyone has to make assuptions; just need to remember to check them when new data becomes avail

Off to listen to vee <:Veemote:501103628883591188>

Attack when I'm not the one who assumed I don't understand the conversation because of lack of experience I equally could argue you should have just asked lol

i see that; just clicked

Okay

Some are just less broad assumptions then others

then how do you credit experience?

it's a rather tricky thing these days imo

I would say age but not everyone learns from their experience

very true; some just keep making the same mistakes

and it's always been true that while some of your parents experience is valid, not all of it applies as things change

Some refuse to learn and get angry instead or deflect, blame others ext

Anything but take responsibility

say nothing for experience being rather indistiguiable from bullshit

very true

That's under the assumption your parents actually gave a fuck about you

and many beleive that responsibility and blame are one in the same

A lot of people come from broken homes now days

most i think

Even my fathers generation that was prevalent

~~9/11 wasn't an inside job~~

most have parents that used them for emotional support as they didn't have an equal to do this for them

it was their choice

but the child pays the cost

creates nihlists and users

Its meant to work the other way around lol

and destroys expectations

Kids lean on their pillar parents not the parents lean on the kid

that's one of the main reasons responsibility is never learned

half of the people get punished no matter what they do

the other half get off no matter what they do

Get off as in succeed or?

when you have two parents, the 'court' is rarely the same as 'the police'; that way the discipline is directly linked to the child's actions; not the emotion of the parents

Okay let me reread that lol

Daily reminder to bully your local whigger

'get off' i.e. get away with murder

I get what you meant now and yeah that is how most parental relationships work

Yeah my eyes skipped the line above

I don't even consider that kind of relationship be a parental relationship

single mothers are the worst because they cannot compartmentalize their feelings from others

and they want extra credit for having to do everything themselves, conveniently forgetting that it was their ERROR in choosing a man that landed them in that position