the females job is to MAKE a man care about what is important

one encourages the development of strong, independent and capable men

the other encourage the development of families with a capable 'worker bee'

I don't know women seem to test men in the opposite direction

they do now, of course

cause the above is no longer the standard

A corruption of values maybe

women aren't looking for a 'good man' nor are their decisions focused on 'fielding a family'

Why don't men cry more translation: be weaker or maybe why aren't men more like women

in general, they are just looking for what makes them ' happy' (feels good)

lol

Yeah that ones true

I don't feel like I seek pleasure like that feels alien to me

men don't cry more because unlike women who ellict sympathy, a man doing so ellicts attack

Showing weakness is asking to be attacked

exactly

it's why more and more males are going postal or killing themselves

And as you said above they don't get it though because they get love and attention for it

because they have to carry everything around inside and can't vent phsyically

nor can they vent those emotions in the manner that women do without being dawg piled

so the nilhlist gets stuck in a loop until they snap

they either blame themselves or blame othersr

Others usly

there is a reason that white males in prev generations suffer a massive risk of heart attacks at 40

same reason

Blaming yourself is taking responsibility in a way

because at that age, you could no longer 'work off' the emotion phsycially

and that stress/emotion has no where to go

Imao that's what I do now either yell or work way fucking harder

excactly

blaming one's self is what a person that beleives in responsibility does

they don't want to externalize their problems

they know they can't display them openly

those that don't beleive in responisbility, blame others

That's how I feel most of the time

i feel ya; think everyone does these days given the dynamic

There is always the idea that its possible to make it work if I tried way harder or something like that even if it realistically like that

used to be the very thing that men realized a good woman could provide them that they couldn't do themselves

Emotional support

or?

yup; a space to let one's guard down