perhaps

I mean if I think back to like 80s media seems to be consistent with that

kids usually are more influenced by peers than parents by the time it comes to dealing with conflict

Kind of, I doubt it though, men and women often had to spend lots of time apart in the past

kids first

It'd be because of school actually

Because school is a self contained environment devoid of parents they are outside of it

well, it was more that the integrity of a group was respected

A separate environment I suspect homeschooled fags don't have this

no one likes being forced to admit some FNG to your own group

you can't build respect and hierarchy that way

new guy needs to start at the bottom, endure the beatings and work his way in by earning it

not just being given a free-pass by an outsider

Kek

Ya but you can break that guy, often it can go too far, and also- the sociopath will overdo it compared to what they themselves might have gone through to gain a higher position.

Unless u have charisma

that is always a danger; too much hazing

again- securing position by eliminating the competition.

but not enough is worse

yes

because it won't go away, it will just go underground

that is why you don't break up a fight

careful balance

you just keep it fair

a good leader will know how to figure that out

cause if you don't, a guy will pick up a gun or a knife to even the odds

Its totally encouraged to fight your wars in the female manner now

"just enough to develop you"

Aka bitch and talk shit behind peoples back

exactly; fight like a female

keep everthing inside rather than directing it at the source

Spread rumours expose what someone said about someone else

It is SO FUCKING FAGGOTY

which is FAR more healthy the way males do it

Yeah because after a fight its over less animosity

how many boys have an argument, throw punches and 10 min later are playing games like it never happpend?

The underlying goal to the before mentioned is to attack someones social standing rather then them directly

women? they can seee the girl that wronged them 25 yrs later and try to run her down with their damn car

And it makes sense why when you look at what they do to each other

Ya, I'm of the mind, if you aint got nothing nice to say about the new guy, or talking about how to get him on par with the rest of us, you ain't a productive colleague.

holding it in for too long is destructive