I'm 30 and I already have 4 kids

lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ld8pzIu45F8

another good one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rkfAcWpOYAA

yeah i mean we should be kicking our kids out at like 18 or whatever but not into a cold uncaring world but into a home that they made and i just see that as basic but nice and simple ...most cannot create a timber frame or log and if they do id be worried that they made it majorly wrong and it wuold fail prematurely...other than that i cant really help if you need tips on building practices im here

I might just go with something more conventional in the end

but I do plan on attending workshops and practicing before I build my home

I'd rather have a smaller home that I build correctly with my own hands than a larger home built conventionally. If I'm going to build it conventionally I'd rather hire people out to do it

they have more experience and could probably do a better job

im not going to say either way you try its going to be insanely difficult...and experience is most useful in cutting corners

I've always been naturally good with my hands. I used to be an artist once upon a time. I've done a fair bit of wood working as well, and scultping. I have the natural aptitude.... it's just software development makes more money lol

so that's what I'm doing these days

but we're saving money away to buy land and build a house on it... even if it's just a modest home.... we're not jews. We're content with simplicity

haha i live near a bunch of jews...literally the safest realty around they are smart with where they live...but theyll anally rape anyone else...ok so building a house wouldnt you love to be able to no bs grab a nail gun and shoot in a 3 inch nail in .5 seconds out of all the other bullshit that could happen wouldnt you want an easy system to begin with...i literally want to know why people like timber frames cuz fuck me id build anything i just dont see the reason i could probably just operate a crane and build a house...im not against it

I honestly think it's the aesthetic appeal and the independence of it

once you know your war around the tools, you can build it from the trees on your property

the aesthetics and the romance of it

and the purity of it

there's something heroic about it

because you're absolutely right, my dude

taking a nail gun and just hammering out a frame out of milled two-by's is going to get the job done

and it's going to get it done faster and cheaper

especially since for you, a guy with experience building many homes, that's what you know

I have no idea at all what it's like to build a home

so for me it's just pure fantasy in my head

it's pure romance

so I romanticize the process of homebuilding, doing it like my ancestors did, with a mallet and chisel, the slow, steady, methocial way

the same way I write code, lol

well its also the acreage wouldnt allow for timberframes by me ...but couldnt you add fake beams to a regular stud wall and be like look honey its just like the pictures etc

lol

you might be right

but there's something about the real thing

about handling the real structural timbers with your hands and manipualting them, and carving existence and memories from them

i agree its really cool i just never saw it done right and i never was in one to begin with...i always see small bathrooms, weird kitchens without enough counterspace and low ceilings ...fix that and youre good

cuz you're totally right, man... there are many easier simpler ways to build a house

i just dont see good floor plans

yeah I know what you mean

and there are many older homes that are timber frames, that have older standards of accommodation

you know what I mean?

yeah i feels you

like I live in Utah and there are houses out here built a 100 years ago people are still living in