But really. How are you? What brought you here?

wanted to be able to connect with other dudes who are over the double standards and stripping of men's rights that are increasingly happening in the pursuit of "equality"

i work in an office of predominately females and each day it's harder and harder to be ok with some of the stuff i witness

Oh wow.. what kind of things?

i help with payroll and so one thing is that i process people's alimony and child support payments

@Yozo ouch.

these guys bust their asses and work long hours for their pay only for all of it to be taken away

You must have seen some pretty harsh things doing that.

but the burden of proof is always on them to show they are good fathers and be allowed time with their kids

Yeah. I hear they get about four hours a time, if they're lucky.

so if they don't pay to play, they can't see them at times

where's the fairness or justice in that

Yeah, so I've been over it.

Finally decided to seek out others who are over it too.

Truth is that we dont really get over things.

It's in the background, always.. and shapes our thoughts and opinions

Some people call this PTSD... Others... Call it life.

But it doesn't stop it being there. It's a useless classification.

We just cope as we can. You know, mate?

yeah

I'm glad someone understands, cause Jesus, I was starting to think no one did

Thank you

Hello Everyone. I got into this movement from reading two books, Men on Strike by Helen Smith and The Myth of Male Power by Warrren Farrell. I work in corporate finance.

That's nice. Why did you wait?

I waited to introduce myself because I have other servers that occupy a lot of my time outside of my job and I wasn't sure that this place and I would be a good fit. Then I realized that introducing myself was the only way to see if it would be a good fit.

What a weird way of seeing things

Welcome :3

That's not weird at all lol

Is it not?

Nah I don't think so.

I disagree, but its not like, wrong

Hey.. what happened to all the channels on this server?

They aren't here. For you anyway. Want then to be, then tell us about yourself :3

I can magically make them there.. or not... Why should I?

Wat. I didn't have to prove myself before. What changed?

I changed. We all change day to day... Hair gets whiter... I'm still young, aren't I? :<

Are you sure its grey!!?

Well fuck

Happy now?