Message from @Red Jasper

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2020-12-29 15:07:27 UTC  

Man gonna be honest at this moment I don't care

2020-12-29 15:07:59 UTC  

Like hey I'm 17 and I'm a virgin why should I give a shit about sex when there's more important shit out there

2020-12-29 19:45:33 UTC  

@ninni._.burninni what's the nature of the pair-bond though and how are people defining "marriage"? If people are not getting "married", but stick by each other, isn't that marriage? I'm starting to believe the government has no say whether I'm married or not.

2020-12-29 19:46:15 UTC  

The court system makes way too much money off of people divorcing.

2020-12-29 19:46:40 UTC  

I would completely understand why a man would never want to marry in 2020.

2020-12-29 19:54:31 UTC  

@Red Jasper I hear what you say about marriage in 2020. I think what the study shows is people devaluing the nuclear family when it comes to raising children in general.

2020-12-29 19:56:02 UTC  

In my own community, black people, you see what hell that has paved for decades. Now it's the complete opposite. Having a child is considered minor but getting married is a huge deal.

2020-12-29 19:56:27 UTC  

There's the article.

2020-12-29 19:56:43 UTC  

It says they believe it's not important to be "legally married".

2020-12-29 19:57:20 UTC  

I agree. The government should not have a say in marriage. It should a separation of church and state.

2020-12-29 19:57:23 UTC  

It doesn't state much of anything else.

2020-12-29 19:58:39 UTC  

Yup. The government just want to displace the role of the Church. And that's what lefties want.

2020-12-29 19:59:12 UTC  

I agree to the separation. Also family court is joke.

2020-12-29 20:00:36 UTC  

Family court is only good when I want to watch Paternity Court on Youtube.

2020-12-29 20:18:11 UTC  

marriage is important with kids though

2020-12-29 20:19:22 UTC  

plus people don't even bother with actually fighting for their marriages these days, they just give up when they get to a rough time instead of fighting for it. marriage via the church is "till death do us part", lifelong.

2020-12-29 20:19:31 UTC  

which people don't seem to care about anymore

2020-12-29 20:22:03 UTC  

Yeah i agree marriage is important for children, but it's definitely not the government's place.

2020-12-29 20:23:26 UTC  

Growing up in California, I've seen more women hurt their marraiges and families, than men have. I see men fight way hard for their families, but the court just isn't on their side and lawyers are money. They get bled dry.

2020-12-29 20:23:49 UTC  

In Nevada, perhaps it has changed in the last decade, men don't even have biological rights to their children.

2020-12-29 20:24:03 UTC  

It's already biased.

2020-12-29 20:24:10 UTC  

that sucks

2020-12-29 20:25:00 UTC  

from what i understand more men are fighting and winning custody so

2020-12-29 20:25:22 UTC  

been an upward trend for a while now

2020-12-29 20:27:36 UTC  

Yeah. Slowly, I have been seeing the shift too. And that's recent years because women have really tipped themselves off the loony horse. I see so many women doping themselves out with drugs and cheating on their husbands in the name of "empowerment".

2020-12-29 20:27:58 UTC  

where do you see them at

2020-12-29 20:28:03 UTC  

I'm in California.

2020-12-29 20:28:20 UTC  

makes sense. modern day sodom and gomorrah it seems like

2020-12-29 20:28:34 UTC  

cali would be what, sodom and new york would be gomorrah? or vice versa

2020-12-29 20:28:40 UTC  

I'm speeking from watching the men in my family and those around me

2020-12-29 20:28:44 UTC  

That salt pillar might show up soon.

2020-12-29 20:28:45 UTC  

it's wayyyyy too common.

2020-12-29 20:28:54 UTC  

oh so just in your families

2020-12-29 20:29:08 UTC  

so i'm not speaking in "statistics" from what i hear on the news

2020-12-29 20:29:11 UTC  

i see it first hand

2020-12-29 20:29:14 UTC  

it's almost everywhere

2020-12-29 20:29:22 UTC  

alrighty

2020-12-29 20:29:42 UTC  

A stable marriage here is a sigh of relief

2020-12-29 20:29:52 UTC  

gotta fight for that