how i found one of my irl mgtow friends, lol.

Then, the relationship from there can get better or worse. My mom actually got surprisingly better in the aftermath but still bitches occasionally about mothers day flowers or chocolates. The bottom line is that your mom changes from an Authoritarian figure to just another person.

Did you tell her you’re leaving before you left or she came home and you were gone one day?

well said repo

best to let her know your leaving...

then she will give you going away gifts / supplies / help you out a bit if she is not a cunt 😛

@YuriBezmenov I told her I was leaving beforehand. One thing to know: the decision to tell your parents or not is completely up to you, and if you're old enough there's nothing they can do to stop you legally. However, I can guarantee your mom will try the usual manipulative bullshit, so hide anything valuable to you (collectibles, projects, etc.) because she will try to fucking hide them or take them away like you're a fucking 12 year old.

yeah, pack everything before you tell her.

Yea I would only do once its confirmed and Ive packed my important shit

You need to realize that you'll always be your mom's kid in her mind (at least for normal Mothers) and when you're moving out, it will take a while for reality to set in.

Lmao she’ll probably shame and even challenge me

During that time is where you need to be most vigilant when it comes to childish bullshit.

In hopes that I’ll cower and stay

ahh, hate to leave now, but time to practice my guitar 😢

Like I said, manipulation and shaming tactics are run of the mill @YuriBezmenov. Just remember your mom isn't a fucking NAWALT>

AWALT. Period.

I know that, I definitely know that

You all should have noticed the female nature in your own fucking mother by now.

Hence why I want to leave

If she was the mystical nawalt Id stay

Yeah. My mom was emotionally abusive for most of my childhood, so I had crippling insecurity issues growing up which isolated me and, to top it off, I'm a fairly capable individual so people would be even more disappointed.

Anyway, that's off topic. What I'm saying is, be a fucking man. Don't go crying back to your fucking mommy when you get homesick fucker.

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Well thanks for the bootcamp style ending there

@YuriBezmenov Oh I'm hardly done

Continue

Cuz all of this shit is resonating

@YuriBezmenov Another thing to really watch out for is the homemaking. the fucking homemaking... if your mom has the ability to she'll try to get you to spend a shit ton of fucking money on shit like curtains, couches, TV's, pots, pans, couch pillows, fucking everything you can imagine.

I'm assuming you don't have a shit ton of money saved up

So you'll have to buy the stuff you need slowly.

My mum was one of those ones that would give you a list of chores youd do all of them and when she gets home she’d scold you for not doing this chore that wasnt on the list and that 10 year old me shouldve just known to do regardless im just a dumb kid

But, DO NOT under any fucking circumstance spend $1K on fucking couches because your mom thinks you need them. Or anything else for that matter. You need to know what you'll fucking need @YuriBezmenov and get it for yourself.

And youll figure out what you need real fast when you dont have it

You can do it along the way haphazardly or plan ahead. Don't forget toilet paper <:alexjones:582521418361602059>

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@YuriBezmenov Try to realize all the shit you take for granted at your parents house that you won't have when you move out. Shit like can openers, silverware, plates, glasses, shit for cooking... whatever. I suggest planning ahead.

Oh no, I have quite a-bit of money saved up

And Ive have realized alot of the shit I wont have

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But I also wont need it

Yeah, but still. It's a shit ton of fun to make your place, *yours*