Unless I can get my brother to stop over
He takes care of his 100 year old mother-in-law
What does he say about helping out?
Yeah, I remember you said he was helping his MIL
He's also a part-time pastor
Does visitations
my goodness you both have your plates full
oh does he? wow
and is in a couple of bands
oh my word lol
He's busy, but he's going to have to help out now
His wife will have to kick in to help more with her mother
She works full time
Sometimes we have to rearrange life.
Yes, life gets messy
We do what we have to.
This is the same as when Dad was in the hospital
really.. same pattern?
I was there mornings and after work
No, I mean with my schedule.
oh I see
But I started to burn myself out.
So I have to be careful this time.
Yeah you really do.
you need help
Not you.. LOL but you need some people to shoulder the burden
Maybe I can get my daughters to pop in once a week, too
I'm no spring chicken, either
oh that is a good idea
How would your mom do with a "stranger" helping out?
That is usually tough for them
They were devastated when Dad died.
Mom doesn't mind strangers helping out.
Her apartment was a mess yesterday.
oh that is good
I had no idea.
It was about three days since I had been there
How was it a mess?
just stuff everywhere? or
She couldn't bend down to pick stuff up, so things were on the floor
ohhh
