Message from @Gailm
Discord ID: 629781225296363540
So I have to be careful this time.
Yeah you really do.
you need help
Not you.. LOL but you need some people to shoulder the burden
Maybe I can get my daughters to pop in once a week, too
I'm no spring chicken, either
oh that is a good idea
How would your mom do with a "stranger" helping out?
That is usually tough for them
They were devastated when Dad died.
Mom doesn't mind strangers helping out.
Her apartment was a mess yesterday.
oh that is good
I had no idea.
It was about three days since I had been there
How was it a mess?
just stuff everywhere? or
She couldn't bend down to pick stuff up, so things were on the floor
ohhh
Garbage wasn't taken downstairs
Is there supposed to be someone that helps with that?
So I cleaned it up and said I'd be back tonight.
She has a cleaning lady that comes on Tuesdays, I think
But she's not supposed to have to do all that stuff.
yeah she probably tries though
Hard to let someone else take over and help with everything
Probably not so much for my mother
My Dad did a lot of the cleaning
Well, I am worried about you.. burning out.
I'll have to start doing the laundry, too.
But I can wash it when I first get there, put it in the dryer
and refresh and fold it the next day
I'm going to work on a plan where I get help
I'm not good at asking or accepting help
But this is different
It's time for me to learn to do it
I've always had a hard time saying no when people ask me to do stuff, too
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I learned how to do that here at work. LOL
about time.